For a while I thought it was just me but I guess this problem is very widespread. I've been in so many similar situations. I suppose this is just how women are in today's age. Who wold of ever thought it would be this difficult to pull even average pvssy. They are all mini-celebritiesBorknagar said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm done
- Thread starter Borknagar
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
WTF bro. Have you read what everyone else has posted in here? Stop fueling the fire. Work on yourself and it will not come off that you are in it for the pvssy.TIC said:For a while I thought it was just me but I guess this problem is very widespread. I've been in so many similar situations. I suppose this is just how women are in today's age. Who wold of ever thought it would be this difficult to pull even average pvssy. They are all mini-celebrities
READ THE POSTS -- some golden **** there.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
I really don't have it in me anymore. The last girl I talked to approached me but when she realized I didn't have a car she's completely cold.
It's just not worth it. BTW I plan to get a beamer for myself this summer. But I'm still not paying these people any mind.
It's just not worth it. BTW I plan to get a beamer for myself this summer. But I'm still not paying these people any mind.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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Just pay attention to the inner-game stuff. Negs post was gold. Its so true, in fact its giving me a mini epiphany right now. Read up on inner-game, and make you sure you adapt all of that to YOU (not the other way around).
All the other sh*t is worthless. Waiting days to call, acting disinterested, etc. Its all bullsh*t. This 'scene' is filled with it.
For the record any time I tried to use some outer-game 'trick', it blew up in my face. Literally, every time.
All the other sh*t is worthless. Waiting days to call, acting disinterested, etc. Its all bullsh*t. This 'scene' is filled with it.
For the record any time I tried to use some outer-game 'trick', it blew up in my face. Literally, every time.
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Listen man, from what your buddy posted it sounds like you need to work on inner-game. We ALL have room to improve, I'm not judging you. We all need to constantly keep our inner game in top shape.
I am a naturally fit and athletic guy, but I'm thin. And I was smoking and drinking all the time. Even though I was working out I wasn't improving. And the smoke was aggravating my acne.
Recently I stopped and I've been going to the gym every day. I've gained 10 lbs of rock solid muscle and I feel great. I've been getting more looks than ever in the past few weeks.
Anyways, so take a deep look at yourself and write a list of what you can do to improve yourself.
I am a naturally fit and athletic guy, but I'm thin. And I was smoking and drinking all the time. Even though I was working out I wasn't improving. And the smoke was aggravating my acne.
Recently I stopped and I've been going to the gym every day. I've gained 10 lbs of rock solid muscle and I feel great. I've been getting more looks than ever in the past few weeks.
Anyways, so take a deep look at yourself and write a list of what you can do to improve yourself.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
nice thread. i'm the same really. i'm kind of in the whatever give up section.
i just texted this girl who i called last week and everything was great, we had plenty of laughs and a good vibe going... i figured she saved my number. i texted her before and she's like "ah who is this?" i just laughed out loud because it's so fuking dumb how girls act. i don't care though, shes nothing to me. also a different girl i was seeing, we have the best time together when we are hanging out.. soon as we part ways she starts playing games. calls me few days later going nuts saying why i havent been talking to her etc. so when i finally do contact her and talk, she hardly talks and is boring.. i ask to hang out again and she gives me stupid one word answers "maybe" so i just hang up and leave it alone until she contacts me again .. i only give girls a few chances. they keep playin games with me then fuk off i say. i'm really not into the games they play and i have no patience with it like most guys do.
i think some things on here are true. live the life you want, enjoy your life without women, they will come to you when you're enjoying life on your own. working, making money, buy a house, meet friends and go out a little. when you're happy you don't really even need a woman. when i was living alone i was very lonely and i never went out, i still don't go out that much but now that im meeting more people and i'm happy again, i don't really NEED women to be happy. i've always been much happier single and that's been half my life. i noticed that everytime i meet a girl and fall for her, then we break up it ruins me badly. puts me to the ground and it takes a while for me to get back up again and be happy.
i'm only just starting to get back up again and be happy from my last girl who dumped me. i took it hard and i kind of relied on that girl to be happy which is very bad. i was unhappy but when i was with her i was the happiest guy alive. not good!
be happy on your own and live your own life before thinking about women. they ARE indeed fuked up and are NOT number one in my list anymore!
i just texted this girl who i called last week and everything was great, we had plenty of laughs and a good vibe going... i figured she saved my number. i texted her before and she's like "ah who is this?" i just laughed out loud because it's so fuking dumb how girls act. i don't care though, shes nothing to me. also a different girl i was seeing, we have the best time together when we are hanging out.. soon as we part ways she starts playing games. calls me few days later going nuts saying why i havent been talking to her etc. so when i finally do contact her and talk, she hardly talks and is boring.. i ask to hang out again and she gives me stupid one word answers "maybe" so i just hang up and leave it alone until she contacts me again .. i only give girls a few chances. they keep playin games with me then fuk off i say. i'm really not into the games they play and i have no patience with it like most guys do.
i think some things on here are true. live the life you want, enjoy your life without women, they will come to you when you're enjoying life on your own. working, making money, buy a house, meet friends and go out a little. when you're happy you don't really even need a woman. when i was living alone i was very lonely and i never went out, i still don't go out that much but now that im meeting more people and i'm happy again, i don't really NEED women to be happy. i've always been much happier single and that's been half my life. i noticed that everytime i meet a girl and fall for her, then we break up it ruins me badly. puts me to the ground and it takes a while for me to get back up again and be happy.
i'm only just starting to get back up again and be happy from my last girl who dumped me. i took it hard and i kind of relied on that girl to be happy which is very bad. i was unhappy but when i was with her i was the happiest guy alive. not good!
be happy on your own and live your own life before thinking about women. they ARE indeed fuked up and are NOT number one in my list anymore!