I've been spending more and more time recently around some people my age (new people) and it's seriously insane how far ahead of the curve I am in terms of my lifestyle, success, how in shape I am, the wonderful friends and family I have, etc.... It has lead me to understand that I've been my own biggest enemy in regards to dating. My negative defeatist attitude has destroyed my prospects of dating all these years and it's for absolutely no reason. I've basically tortured myself and deprived myself of what i want so badly by own my terrible attitude. I'm realizing that I have unlimited potential in terms of social success.
From now on, I'm going to condition myself with positive winning thoughts everyday in regards to women and try to talk to the cute ones every chance I can. I'm going to stop putting so much pressure on myself to come up with a perfect conversation starter and have faith that anything I say will work as long as I am my usual positive, friendly, confident and genuine self (which it will). Everytime I think about attractive women, I will envision them liking me and wanting to be around me.
I do really wish I had some easy ways to just get a few dates though with attractive females. I've always been good on dates and right now, I would absolutely f*cking dominate on dates. I've thought about trying online dating but I'm only a 6-7/10 in pics and for online dating, that's probably not good enough to get a 7/10 female in her mid 20s. Females 7s online still want male 10/10s because of how many messages they get. I'm starting to overcome my anxiety for real life dating but then I run into the problem of not being able to find what I want - I want a very attractive ethnic woman in her 20s with a great personality, no kids, smart, etc... I could find that very easily online but it will be difficult in real life
From now on, I'm going to condition myself with positive winning thoughts everyday in regards to women and try to talk to the cute ones every chance I can. I'm going to stop putting so much pressure on myself to come up with a perfect conversation starter and have faith that anything I say will work as long as I am my usual positive, friendly, confident and genuine self (which it will). Everytime I think about attractive women, I will envision them liking me and wanting to be around me.
I do really wish I had some easy ways to just get a few dates though with attractive females. I've always been good on dates and right now, I would absolutely f*cking dominate on dates. I've thought about trying online dating but I'm only a 6-7/10 in pics and for online dating, that's probably not good enough to get a 7/10 female in her mid 20s. Females 7s online still want male 10/10s because of how many messages they get. I'm starting to overcome my anxiety for real life dating but then I run into the problem of not being able to find what I want - I want a very attractive ethnic woman in her 20s with a great personality, no kids, smart, etc... I could find that very easily online but it will be difficult in real life
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