Ok. im done, i dont care no more, i dont give a ****, i dont care about what other people think of me, i dont care no more, im goin to do what i want, feel what i want, say what i want. I've been a push over my whole life, socially ive been a follower my whole entire life, i love women, but they arent everything, if i cant get one whatever i dont give a ****. It's not a priority to me no more, im goin to be someone, im going to live my life to the fullest, even if iam alone. I just dont care. No one is going to get in my way, no one is going to step all over me, im done with all this bs.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Im done with all this bs.
- Thread starter jat187
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can't do that without a chick in your arms
Don't worry, or give up dude! Sometimes life throws you curve balls; you should always learn from your past mistakes! Imagine throwing darts and aiming for the bull's eye; the more darts you throw, the more chances you have at finally nailing it! So don't give up and keep on trying
Befuddled
Don Juan
Chill.
from my limited experience......
If at first you dont succeed....try, try again, right ? well with darts yes, with sports, work, etc...yes it works.
In my opinion, the more you 'try' with women.... the less likely you are to get what it is your looking/hoping for. I think it should come 'naturally', when you click with a girl. (i might be wrong, but this site deals with actively trying and trying to make it seem like your not..... works for most people, not for me.....just dosent 'feel' right.)
For me... well ...im just usually out to have a great time with friends and sure to meet new people and girls. I engage in a conversation, not to impress, but to have a laugh and have a good time.
If i dont like other ppls attitude towards me, i just avoid em, if i like em, i hang around and have...even better times.
Just relax.... find out what it is that makes you 'happy'...sports, partying, beaches, etc... and find ppl with the same passion and go it together. Have fun...if other ppl cant see that or push you over....just forget about em if you can...and go ahead and doing what makes you tick.
from my limited experience......
If at first you dont succeed....try, try again, right ? well with darts yes, with sports, work, etc...yes it works.
In my opinion, the more you 'try' with women.... the less likely you are to get what it is your looking/hoping for. I think it should come 'naturally', when you click with a girl. (i might be wrong, but this site deals with actively trying and trying to make it seem like your not..... works for most people, not for me.....just dosent 'feel' right.)
For me... well ...im just usually out to have a great time with friends and sure to meet new people and girls. I engage in a conversation, not to impress, but to have a laugh and have a good time.
If i dont like other ppls attitude towards me, i just avoid em, if i like em, i hang around and have...even better times.
Just relax.... find out what it is that makes you 'happy'...sports, partying, beaches, etc... and find ppl with the same passion and go it together. Have fun...if other ppl cant see that or push you over....just forget about em if you can...and go ahead and doing what makes you tick.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Ok you must be an current member who took out a 2nd screen name to hide who you truely are.
It's anyones guess who you are since you fit the profile of half the heads on this site.
But my message to you is to keep trying. Never give up. I don't care how big a geek you are or what a dork you truely may be...there is someone for everyone.
I've seen total dweebs with women. They may not of been fine but atleast they were women.
Now why don't you quit whinning like a bytch and :
1. Read the bible until you really know it...I don't mean skim that shyt...KNOW IT!!!
2. Do the boot camp. It amazes me how you fools have the perfect tool here to take you outta your misery and pathetic exsistance, yet you preffer to stay wallowing in the mud.
WHY?
I would like to know why. PM me the answer as to why you are not doing 1 & 2 above. Don't bother with I am because if you were this post would not exist.