"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice church girl...really physical..but still a virgin..isnt waiting for marriage..I know she will fall in love with me..

so how long should I wait..I mean emotionally if I fall for her it will be longer than shorter.

how long have you waited?


ive been having sex since I was 17..adn 2 months was the longest ive ever went without it.

but this women is pretty remarkable
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't want to help you corrupt a woman!:(

But then again every hor was a virgin at one time in her existence!

If she is not waiting for marriage then just push to higher limits at each encounter - 1st base 2nd base 3rd base -- HOMERUN!!!:cheer:
 

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im serious tho..Im not coming here to claim she is the one and all this...we dated 2 yrs ago for a month.
didnt work out she was too religous at that time.


she is more liberal now..we have been talking on aim for 2 yrs..and the phone sparringly...id talk to her about all the women im doing this and that with.

so eventually we meet up sat night..and make out the entire time :)

it was good..so we are going out tonight..

SHE NEEDS TO BE CORRUPTED!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I don't want to help you corrupt a woman!:(

But then again every hor was a virgin at one time in her existence!

If she is not waiting for marriage then just push to higher limits at each encounter - 1st base 2nd base 3rd base -- HOMERUN!!!:cheer:

PRL I want to know what is your take to the following music video/Cartoon. Now is the girl in the following video a hor or not?!

http://www.milkandcookies.com/links/30912/
 

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My most recent ex was a virgin before I met her. We dated for about a month before having sex. The only thing to be conscious of is that when you have sex with a virgin, she will become pretty attached. I don't regret taking my ex's virginity, but I was not nearly as into her as she was into me. Also, at this point I honestly like to be with a girl who has at least a little bit of experience!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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we went to see the longest yard last night.


that movie is halarious!

anyways she is def into me....

still a virgin :) we made out in my car for about 15 min..thursday night we are going out to do something..probably play some mini golf or something active....

then back to my place :)
 

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I was with a virgin before and it took 5 months before we had sex. From what i understood, she took this long to be ready because she was afraid i would label her as being "too easy". That made me laugh... After her first time, sex came much more easily, so it was just like a little psychological barrier to breach.
 
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