"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm curious....

ItsOnNow

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What are your feelings on tradition? I.e traditional relationships,marriage,family,etc? Or is it all ons and f-buddies till you find the right one? Or how many believe in the traditonal one man one woman in marriage belief?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lordson

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are you asking about marraige or traditional courting?

regarding marraige, i think its perfectly fine to date as many women as possible until you find the one girl that is completely right for you. along the way you may meet some girls who are sorta/almost right, but not quite right but its always good to hang out for that one perfect match.

doesn't have to be perfect, you know what i mean
 

ItsOnNow

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A little of both.Well,sleeping with/dating as many as you can is often discussed on here. Or what if you don't have much experience? Or what if you just want to find one and be done with it?
 

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Whew, I though you were going to say you were bi curious. I'm glad to know that you aren't switch hitting.
 
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