"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm curious....

ItsOnNow

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What are your feelings on tradition? I.e traditional relationships,marriage,family,etc? Or is it all ons and f-buddies till you find the right one? Or how many believe in the traditonal one man one woman in marriage belief?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lordson

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are you asking about marraige or traditional courting?

regarding marraige, i think its perfectly fine to date as many women as possible until you find the one girl that is completely right for you. along the way you may meet some girls who are sorta/almost right, but not quite right but its always good to hang out for that one perfect match.

doesn't have to be perfect, you know what i mean
 

ItsOnNow

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A little of both.Well,sleeping with/dating as many as you can is often discussed on here. Or what if you don't have much experience? Or what if you just want to find one and be done with it?
 

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Whew, I though you were going to say you were bi curious. I'm glad to know that you aren't switch hitting.
 
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