"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did anyone's dad ever take them aside and explain women to them,the reality of it,how to be a man,a strong masculine man of value and character,how to properly attract women,etc? Or did alot of you learn on your own in some way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nope, learned it all on my own. You??
 
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ItsOnNow said:
Did anyone's dad ever take them aside and explain women to them,the reality of it,how to be a man,a strong masculine man of value and character,how to properly attract women,etc? Or did alot of you learn on your own in some way?
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Nope.

My parents were divorced and my dad was never a strong masculine man.

I think father's should be living by example. Most family homes nowaday's has the woman as the dominering figure and the frustrated father aiming to please. It is no wonder that boys grow up to become AFC's if that is what they precieved to be the correct model their whole life.
 
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He tried, god help him. Most of it I just learned later on. You know, it's kinda' like grilled chicken casserole. You can talk all day long about the texture, taste and consistency of grilled chicken casserole, but the description simply will not satisfy someone else's' hunger. Some things you just have to learn on your own.
 
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I really don't know. I know my parent's are good people,they have been married 25 years now,Idk what the secret is,if any,but they seem to make it work. My dad is a good man,but what exactly I learned from him,I don't know...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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