Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm curious, what is your definition of 'slvt' ?

TheMale

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hey guys,

lastly i was talking to a friend chick of mine and we got to speak about slvts.
make me wonder what are you considering a slvt ?

for my part, a slvt = a chick that acting like a b!tch/AW/wh0re.

but for those chick that other call them slvt because thei're having sex with a lot of guys, i'll define that as chick who's having fun with the good things life as to offer and in no way they would be a slvt.
like guys who's woking out because they like that, or chick that doing shopping because they like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheMale

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
You've bought into the feminist propaganda. I've never met a chick that slept around a lot that didnt have a mental disorder/daddy issues.

Also,
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/
so why chicks are calling them slvt ?!
i mean if its a feminist propagande, why other female/feminist call them slvt ?

and if we're talking about that, how come we guys sleeping with chick and are considere like the great catch, and chick who's sleeping around are slvt ?

well, excepted the psychological disorder or dady issues.
 

ilikecharlene

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I don't believe in it, since I don't think it's "wrong" for women to sleep around.
 

TheMale

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so you dont believe that the word slvt have a definition whatsoever ?
 

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I think slvt is a girl who is sloppy in everything. Sexually, life, goals etc. A girl who likes sex is just a cool girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A slvt is a girl that sleeps with someone else and not you.
 

SamTheHobit

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Slut - A girl that get ****ed by every other guy.
 

ilikecharlene

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TheMale said:
so you dont believe that the word slvt have a definition whatsoever ?
It has a definition, but i don't see the pejorative in it.
 

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It's not about numbers, but attitude. It really isn't anything that you can quantify. If you talk like a slut, and you dress like a slut, and you act like a slut, then you're a slut.

But if you talk respectfully, and dress respectfully, and you act respectfully, and you **** like a slut, then you're not a slut.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It is defined as a, "a promiscuous woman" if you want to know the definition. Basically, if she has been banged by more than one guy in her life she is one. Dressing has nothing to do with being one. It might make one look like such a character, but you can tough and still be a wimp.

So, if she bangs more than one guy she is a S-L-U-T.
 
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