"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Heizen

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I try to avoid IM contact with a girl I am trying to hook up with; if the conversation goes dead then it is on you. Plus it seems to lead to LJBF zone.

If you must, I always end up talking about sex or something of the like with a girl I am trying to hook up with. Making out, sexual things of that nature. I think it relates to the gunwitch method, get them into their sexual state, then you can continue it when you talk to her later.

IM is not the way to DJ girls, avoid it, but use it if you must.
 
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Dukester

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I've totally stopped using AIM. I hate it, and it's gotten me nothing but trouble. It did get me laid earlier this year, but I was AFC then, so it doesnt count.

I have like 5 AIM acct's, but i only use the one, and nobody but my good, good friends know it. I just watch all the other people sign on and off, and it's better that way. Sometimes I im them to mess w/ them, and pretend to be certain ppl, but I just use AIM now to keep in touch w/ my friends in other colleges.

Other than that, AIM is the worst way to hook up, the worst way to DJ, and just plain sux. Avoid it when you DJ if you can, or u can be a pvssy AFC and use it. Hey it got me laid- once.
 
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tatlongxxx

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its not a good idea to get chick from AIM or MSN.
Its better to use the technique on your own place where you can instantly meet her talk to her anytime you want.
 
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