"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IM Convo w/ a 7.5 Hot babe

dragonsexpress

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hey guys, here's a convo I just had with this hot babe from college.

JtCase0783:hey, i see your away msg is on, i'll check ya out later

half hour later:

:talking from her away msg: JLea723:whos this?

JtCase0783:my bad, wrong person

she then returns from away

JLea723:eek:h ok

a minute after that I go back and IM her

JtCase0783: hey my bad, this is the right person.. i picked up your s/n off facebook because your gorgeous
JLea723: haha thank u
JLea723: so who are u
JtCase0783: i'm jarett, i think we met?
JLea723: in person?
JtCase0783: mm nah i'm not sure
JtCase0783: are you in the dorms?
JLea723: the village
JtCase0783: oh, yeah i'm not sure.. but hey, i gotta get back to some work.. im me later
JLea723: k bye

what are some suggestions that I can have for this convo?

thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JMillion

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If you're at college, why don't you try going out and meeting one of hundreds of co-eds available to you in person.
 

Nighthawk

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It's terrible. It starts badly, establishing contact just to say you'll try again later, which you dutifully did after just 30 minute. In her mind you were twiddling your thumbs watching the clock. Why not just wait until you know she's online, or leave a message that isn't so dull?

Then it got worse with the confusion about whether you've contacted the right person (though a humorous 'I seem to be a little retarded today' would make her laugh and build rapport.

'I just wanted to say you're gorgeous'? Yes, devalue your status right off the bat. 'Oh please pretty lady, spare me a moment of your busy day so I may kiss your a$$?'

Then you suggest you have met, then aren't sure - which sounds shifty and is dull reading. Then you shoot off leaving her thinking, if she hasn't forgotten you already, 'who was that weird person and why should I message them back?"

Have you read The Bible? Where was the ****y and funny? Where did you establish that you were The Prize? Better get reading before she IMs you back.

But don't hold your breath.
 
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Eccentric

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LOL.

Straight up AFC.

You apologized for sending her the first message.


JtCase0783: "I've seen you on facebook, but I haven't seen you around campus.
Thats a nice shirt you have on in your profile.
JLea723: haha thank u
JLea723: so who are u
JtCase0783: I have the same shirt, it doesnt match my earings though :-(. I'm ____ by the way.
JLea723: *whatever she says*
JtCase0783: *whatever your response is to that*

Trust me, you never know whats going on. She could be having a bad day. If you make her laugh a little at a simple line, your stock goes up. Better than calling her gorgeous. How many other guys have done that same thing from face book?

JtCase0783: so where are you located?
JLea723: the village
JtCase0783: oh yeah? im in the dorms. well ____ me and my friends are going out on ___ and we're always looking forward to meeting new people. you should join us, and bring some friends if youd like. it will be a fun time.
JLea723: ok *blah blah blah*

It maynot be the best, then again I dont use AIM for pickups. If shes interested, #'s would be exchanged. She'd most likely bring her girls along. Probably wouldn't bring a guy. So if things aren't going your way, keep your cool. With her or her friends available, never say its over until its over.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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