"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm considering posting my original POF profile here

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I only want to keep it up here for a day or so but I'm not sure if it can be deleted once posted.

I've researched alot of supposed "c0cky funny" online openers and headlines which in my opinion aren't funny at all.

My new email I sent with a few replies from some hotties today is:

Headline: My mother told me to write you.

Body: My mother told me to write you. She said you look like a nice woman and you would reply.

Do NOT mess with mother!

And my profile is NOT to be taken seriously toots! lol =P


It's amazing some of the crap these women will reply to..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I highly recommend this action. Since your new thing is spamming threads about PoF and how looks matter on the Internet, the least you could do is provide some sort of supplemental visual aids to back up your claims.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
I highly recommend this action. Since your new thing is spamming threads about PoF and how looks matter on the Internet, the least you could do is provide some sort of supplemental visual aids to back up your claims.

Looks DO matter on online dating. No go tell your shrink to double your dosage.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Looks DO matter on online dating.
Yes, we know your position on this topic. You've been bumping your pitiful threads for weeks now to reiterate your stance. You have 3 or 4 open threads outlining the who, what, why, when, where, and how looks matter online. We're clear.

I'm simply supporting your decision to back up your claims with actual evidence. Relax. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to create 4 threads about what books you read matter...if you're in a library.
 

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I've seen Ninja's profile, I pm'd and asked to see it, it was that easy, you big slvt you.

He's a normal looking guy, I wouldn't say handsome, but definitely not offensive to look at. Tall and in good condition for a guy his age, probably looks about 5-8 years younger than he really is.

Somewhere this got twisted. Looks do matter online in that if you have them they're a huge advantage and you won't have to work very hard to see meaningful results. That isn't to say that anybody doing online dating should be limited by their looks, sh!t I don't think the OP intended that to be the takeaway message. An average looking guy with an otherwise kick-ass profile can still get good results; he will work harder to achieve them though.

By that I mean his written profile will need to be tighter, funnier, smarter, sexier and demonstrate higher value than his better looking competition and do it all without appearing to try too hard. And, he's going to spam more, a lot more.

Actually having seen and read Ninja's profile it's clear that he's working the written part for everything it's worth. I get a sense that after his looks experiment he realised he had to step the written game way, way up to compete with the better looking guys. So far so good I think.

The whole thing motivated me to get some better photos up and that has been paying dividends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wilko said:
I've seen Ninja's profile, I pm'd and asked to see it, it was that easy, you big slvt you.

He's a normal looking guy, I wouldn't say handsome, but definitely not offensive to look at. Tall and in good condition for a guy his age, probably looks about 5-8 years younger than he really is.

Somewhere this got twisted. Looks do matter online in that if you have them they're a huge advantage and you won't have to work very hard to see meaningful results. That isn't to say that anybody doing online dating should be limited by their looks, sh!t I don't think the OP intended that to be the takeaway message. An average looking guy with an otherwise kick-ass profile can still get good results; he will work harder to achieve them though.

By that I mean his written profile will need to be tighter, funnier, smarter, sexier and demonstrate higher value than his better looking competition and do it all without appearing to try too hard. And, he's going to spam more, a lot more.

Actually having seen and read Ninja's profile it's clear that he's working the written part for everything it's worth. I get a sense that after his looks experiment he realised he had to step the written game way, way up to compete with the better looking guys. So far so good I think.

The whole thing motivated me to get some better photos up and that has been paying dividends.
Thanks Wilko. I feel like the prettiest girl at the harvest moon ball now! lmao.

Just got back from going out. Kindof blasted. Had a few cool ones and B.Sing with friends. Got hit on by a group of chicks asking me to take their pictures while telling them they looked retarded. They kept saying "we're cute". They were but fvck it I didn't feel like pursuing it. Got a long work weekend ahead. Actually saw one of the chicks from POF on a date. I know she noticed me. Let it go. Will see her tomorrow. She's coming into my second job. Joisey shore type. lol.

Another chick was offering me her wings. Pretty friggin hot looking. But surrounded by four dudes and seemed the AW. I told her I didn't want that sh!t. She kept offering. No pickup for me tonight. Didn't feel like it.

Talking to a few cuties now on POF. I'm pretty banged up at this point though.

I don't know if anyone notices on POF. But it seems to kindof really mess up your pics. Though I do have 24 messages in my inbox so I guess it's not too bad. lol
 
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