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I'm confused

Andre2807

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What's up guys.

So I'm in the daygame/cold approach during daytime scene and met this girl on the train. We ended up seeing one another regularly on the train on our way, to and from work. She's a total church girl, like the ones that will speak about God and purity, but inside, she's horny like hell.

So tonight, after a really mediocre daygame session, she came over to my place for dinner (first date). Throughout the night there was this raw sexual tension between us. We went back to my room, sat down, and I sat real close, moving in closer to kiss. She resisted a few times (with some weird excuse that she wants to continue seeing me, but if she kisses me, she can't). I kept on pushing that boundary, and about 5 - 10 mins later we were making out heavily, with my hand under top. Again after about 5 mins of making out, she resisted again. So I just laid back, had this smirk on my face. A few minutes later I dropped her off at her place. I should've pulled the trigger and continued pushing against her resistances, but at the time I was in my head about "respecting her boundary".

We sat in my car for about 5 mins talking about why she's resisting even just kissing me (she wants more than just that), she's made this pledge to herself that she will remain pure. Now regardless of the fact that we made out, I know she wants more and wants to see me again, but she tells me that she can't kiss me again, if she wants to continue seeing me.

Should I just escalate every time she's at my place, regardless of the ridiculous boundaries she's setting for herself? I suppose this might just be a rhetorical question, but I'd like to hear some opinions on this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Andre2807

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Well that's just the thing. I'm not in this thing for the long haul. Basically I'd like her to become a booty call. The guy whom she can call when she's alone and horny. She also made it verbally clear that she doesn't want a serious relationship.

So to me... I don't need to date her, if she's willing to come over to mine, even on our first "date". Personally, I think she just wanted to ****. She's basically in two minds. She wants to see me, but not as a friend, nor in a serious monogamous relationship. But her church views and boundaries are also not allowing her to let go completely.
 
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