"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I admit today i was at the mall at i see hot girls working at the store im in. so they come to me saying hi how are you? and im like im good how are you. anyways I want to talk to them more but I feel so nervous. im not sure what im scared of . cause i know theres nothing to lose. and it not like shell kill me or something lol. just stupid stuff like that makes me upset. so when i get home i feel regret and it sucks. so my question is how do i get better at dealing with chicks that i see at the mall working at the store im shopping at? please help. Thanks.:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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killbill said:
I admit today i was at the mall at i see hot girls working at the store im in. so they come to me saying hi how are you? and im like im good how are you. anyways I want to talk to them more but I feel so nervous. im not sure what im scared of . cause i know theres nothing to lose. and it not like shell kill me or something lol. just stupid stuff like that makes me upset. so when i get home i feel regret and it sucks. so my question is how do i get better at dealing with chicks that i see at the mall working at the store im shopping at? please help. Thanks.:cool:
go c+f. a few few years back a few friends of mine and I were at the mall talking to random chicks. Well we're in a clothing store, and he asks for help on what she'd recommend for a birthday gift for his pretend sister like what type of clothes then when she'd pick something he'd be like "well I don't think she'd like that" and she'd say "oh" then "you have anything that shows more skin? yeah she kind of gets around" just have fun. lol
 

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weakepedea said:
go c+f. a few few years back a few friends of mine and I were at the mall talking to random chicks. Well we're in a clothing store, and he asks for help on what she'd recommend for a birthday gift for his pretend sister like what type of clothes then when she'd pick something he'd be like "well I don't think she'd like that" and she'd say "oh" then "you have anything that shows more skin? yeah she kind of gets around" just have fun. lol

thats a good idea man, ill give that a try thanks alot buddy.:up:
 

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yeah start going c+f like "now when I go to the changing room to try on these dont go peeking at the hidden camera"
 
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