"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm confused, should I approach really hot girls?

AlmostThere!

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I'm probably a 7. Should I approach 9's and 10's?

I'm not rich or famous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrGold

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Approach whoever the hell your attracted to.. Forget about the who's or hows, just do it.
 

King_Supreme

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you are only a 7 to u and they are only 10s to others. what i mean is in their head they probably feel that they are 7s also while everybody else looks at them as 10s and vice versa wit u.

if u feel u are a seven then u have great potential to be atleast a 9. probably some nice clothes and a haircut will do the trick. it works for me. some days im a 7 but when i got on new clothes and fresh from the barber shop i know im a 10

the reality of it is that i dont look any different but my perception gives me a different swag and swag (confidence) is what its all about. look at jay z ugly ass. my ex told me that even tho he ugly she would give it to him cuz of his swag.

looks mean nothing. money means nothing either. i used to think it did but i realized if i chick gone give it up to u she dont care if u got money or not. think about it, do u care if chick has money or not. no!!! all u care about is how she looks.

as long as u aint no bum that 30 still at home wit his parents and u are actually doing somethin thats all most will care about.
 
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