i'm confused DOES SHE LIKE ME ??? help

[TimMertens]

I recently did my exams in school and had to sit next to this girl. And now i really fancy her.

Since the exams i've recieved her mobile no. from a friend of mine and we started txting, then it moved onto msn and e-mail.

While we were on msn firstly we were talkin bout general stuff like school, then after about a week or so she started talking about more personal matters.

She even says that i'm a really really gwd friend and that she can tell me anyfing ! she also uses term luv ya and leave alot and also loads of xxxxxxx which i bet from most girls that dnt fancy me !

There is one small problem, she has got a bf, but i dnt think she's happy, i've tried talkin 2 her and she's admitted it, but still won't dump him ?

Wat do i do ??

I've told her that i like her and stuff but she seems to be clamming up all the time especially when i talk 2 her !

does she like me ??

help !!!!!

I'm realli interested and she shows interest sumtimes by flirting back but then other times there's nothing !!

it's weird ?

anyway PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help


She also said that she can't wait to go back to school to see me ??

But i'm still not sure if it's as a friend or wat ?

help

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Yup... girls are like that.

I think she likes you. YOU should ASSUME she likes you. okay?

This pretty much happened to me... ya know... This girl was REALLY beautiful, not like beautiful ONLY to me (since people may assume people on this site are geeks, nerds, etc. for being here), I'm definitely not bad looking... just very anti-social... So I like her, she likes me, I never realize she likes me, so she gets a boyfriend and knows how I feel about it. After a while, she and I hangout every other weekend, and she breaks it off with her boyfriend. But I still never realized she really liked me more than a friend. So she gives up on me once, then forgives me, but eventually does give up, and here I am now... reading this site. I finally know the solution... AFTER she gave up on me.

THAT'S why you need to assume she likes you, or you will freak out EVERY time you see her. Once you get used to the thought of "does she like me?" everytime you see her, you will become shy and hold back everything you want to say to her. And finally, once you become shy and never speak your mind to her everytime you see her, she will eventually give up on you.

So, assume she likes you! Assume she likes you! You get it?

Your post is pretty much like my first post. Just don't make my mistake... my mistake was NOT knowing how to deal with the situation. My mistake was finding out too late. YOU are SMARTER because you seeked help when you needed it, I thought I could survive everytime I saw her... without the knowledge. YOU KNOW how to deal with the situation, because you have a VERY HIGH chance with her STILL.

Reply back.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

liek the other guy said, its fine to asume she likes you, but seriously from what you said, i cant work out much.

You say she gives you all the x's and says luv ya, well i know a girl thats all over me but shes liek that with all her freinds so your best shot is to look at what she does when shes with other frineds and compare it to that, because girls will react diffrently but if she does not do the same with her freinds she probably does like you.

 

[WesCottII]

No. She doesn't like you.

Or you have to assume so because she's still with her b/f. Plus it's moving fast into the friendship zone.

 

[TimMertens]

Thanx guys

Thanks for the help, i'll let u all know how it goes and keep you fully informed!!

Hope she does like me no wait !

( she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me, she does like me )

hey i'm actually starting to believe it

THANKS

 

[Phat]

hmmm..this one seems kinda confusing. U say to her u like her..but she thinks ur a good friend. hmmm hope it works out for u lol

 

[Zod]

I don't think she likes you. A lot of girls I know do the xoxoxo, luv ya bull****. They do it to everyone.

It's going into the friend zone if you don't make a move soon.

 

[B-Lemond]

Plus, why would you tell her you like her?! You just told her that she won the game. There's no more challenge for her. I think she only likes you as a friend.

 

[i am me]

girls with boyfriends arent gonna EVER make it obvious that they like you. They don't wanna look like sluts. I really don't know if she "likes" you in this situation because you're either exaggerating your story at some parts or you're not telling us enough. Try to talk to one of her girl friends (one that you can talk to) and ask them to talk to this girl about you. (Don't let it be known that you asked her to do that though). Try it

 

[aftershock]

I'm tempted to say STUPID AFC QUESTION! But theres quite a lot of confused thinking here, so ignore the advice above. Listen to me instead.

- You used MSN and email AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER! You're fast moving into the friendzone. Never get the MSNs of girls you fancy. Let them think about you, rather than you always being there.
- The "loveya" and xxx are a load of crap. Doesn't mean anything
- Stealing a girl from her boyfriend is difficult for an AFC, and still a challege for a DJ. I've tried before and both succeeded and failed with different women. I had lots of fun in doing so though. (STILL NEED TO DO THAT POST! ARG!)
- Remember that girls don't have any logic in attraction - if they did this site woudn't exist.

- I suggest that you go on MSN a maximum on once a week, and not initiate conversation with her. Get a life outside of those times.
- I suggest that you keep contact with her to a minimum, due to oneitis setting in.
- I suggest that you go for other girls. Theres plenty around.

 

[TimMertens]

HA HA HA SHE DOES LIKE ME !!

She told my friend that she likes me ! and nw she want's to go to the cinema !

LOL i'm f****** over the moon

Thanx 4 all ur help guys !!!!!


gonna ask her how she feels tomoz

BYES

I'll let u know how it goes !

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Re: HA HA HA SHE DOES LIKE ME !!

Originally posted by TimMertens
She told my friend that she likes me ! and nw she want's to go to the cinema !

LOL i'm f****** over the moon

Thanx 4 all ur help guys !!!!!


gonna ask her how she feels tomoz

BYES

I'll let u know how it goes !

your gonna ask how she feels?....omg......im surprised shed go to the movies with you.....I still think she just wants to be your friend. this seems really afc to me...your not a challenge at all

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Please, read the rest of this site, and learn something while you still can. I suppose she does like you now, even though it didn't sound like it from that MSN convo, but yet you still want to ask her about feelings and crap. DO NOT ask her how she feels, ask her if she likes you, tell her you like her, or any of that AFC crap we have learned to not do.... assume she likes you, assume she likes you, act accordingly. I think it is really sad that some guys put all their eggs in one basket so to speak and think a girl is all over them, but then they make one wrong move and it's OVER.

 

[i am me]

Re: HA HA HA SHE DOES LIKE ME !!

Originally posted by TimMertens
She told my friend that she likes me ! and nw she want's to go to the cinema !

LOL i'm f****** over the moon

Thanx 4 all ur help guys !!!!!


gonna ask her how she feels tomoz

BYES

I'll let u know how it goes !

i think thats wut i told u to do...hmmm

ive never seen someone call the movies "the cinema" tho

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I told you *****es that she likes him. Who was right, huh? ME!

Don't listen to the people who said "just cuz she has a boyfriend... she will never like you."

 

[08aisaac]

Well I haven't said my $0.02 yet.

She likes you. Just don't rush things. That's the biggest mistake people make in a relationship.

They rush things, and then they are burnt out.

Like when you drink, if you don't drink too fast, then you should last the night, for more fun drinking, but if you drink too fast, then you will be out of the game in ten seconds flat.

This is where patience comes into play.

You should have soem patience no matter what you are doing, or you will definitely **** it up.

I assume that you want a relationship with her.

The best terms to leave a relationship at, are you become bored with her, and break it off.

But assuming that you have a successful relationship, then it will last long, maybe a year or more.

Well if everything escalates within two weeks of dating, then you won't be together in a year.

So just take things slow, and don't ask too many questions at the beggining. Of course this is advice, and you should do what you want, not what we say.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Impatience is one thing, but on the other end of the spectrum, is the equally bad mistake of taking little or no action when you have an opportunity... if you don't make your move when the time is right, some girls just assume you have no balls and aren't a man and move on to another guy. No action is just as bad as too much action, so you gotta just do things as naturally as possible... keep her on the line so to speak, and don't let it go slack for too long, but at the same time, don't push her to do things if she offers any resistance.

 

[08aisaac]

Yeah true, but so many people jump into a relationship, and it sucks.

But if you are patient, then it doesn't matter what you do, becauss you can always just go with out for awhile.

But make a move, and if you blow it, get some other girl. It seems to me like you want a relationship, so have some patience.

If you want to hookup, then screw patience.