"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im confident.. with my fists

bbestar

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taking cue from
the thread of jprjrjr

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=79061

Should I stop smiling and have an angry face when i walk in the public. Ive fixed my posture, so now i feel im in control of myself and I own the place, and look down on people.

I now walk with my fists tensed like im goin to hit someone.

Ive started eye contact with this and when my eyes move to meet other people's eyes they immediatly look away...

but im still not that confident enough to approach ladies out of the blue... i feel like sometimes its easier to hit someone then to hit on a lady. Ive been reading these threads for quite sometime, and I think I just need a shove in the back to start getting success.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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themanwithnoname

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every afc goes through a jerk mode, it doesn't mean you are confident or manly, don't worry, sooner or later you'll understand what it takes to be a man.
 

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In that case don't be too overconfident with your women..:rolleyes:

But seriously, if I saw someone with their fists clenched stomping down the street glaring at people ALL THE TIME, I would most likely chuckle.

Cheers,
Griff
 
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