So heres my situation. I started a thread about 4 weeks ago about finally SEALING THE DEAL with the girl who've I've wanted for 3 years of my life. We go to the same school and hang with the same people, and for the past 3 years we've hooked up randomly (like once or twice a month). No sex, but everything else. This past spring break (about a month ago), we were in Mexico and on the last night she begged me to go back with her to her room and I did. Finally went all the way and it was AMAZING. Since then we've been hooking up and talking pretty regularly which leads me to this thread...
I don't know how I should escalate this. Like I said I've REALLY liked this girl for the past 3 years and am extremely happy to see my persistance finally pay off, however its a delicate situation because her group of girl friends and my group of guy friends hang out ALL THE TIME. On top of that, this has been a HUGE LONG process so I feel like I need to do this slowly and methodically.
With that being said, I don't want to push this too hard on her so I want to "just roll with it" and see where it goes, however I want to help the direction toward becoming something serious.
What do you guys feel is a good plan of action for me to accomplish this. So far I have this: Next time she spends the night, when we wake up in the morning see if she wants to get some breakfast (instant-date), or just hang out for a little.
I know theres definitely a better way to approach this but for whatever reason, I can't figure it out and thats where you guys come in. Thanks in advance!
I don't know how I should escalate this. Like I said I've REALLY liked this girl for the past 3 years and am extremely happy to see my persistance finally pay off, however its a delicate situation because her group of girl friends and my group of guy friends hang out ALL THE TIME. On top of that, this has been a HUGE LONG process so I feel like I need to do this slowly and methodically.
With that being said, I don't want to push this too hard on her so I want to "just roll with it" and see where it goes, however I want to help the direction toward becoming something serious.
What do you guys feel is a good plan of action for me to accomplish this. So far I have this: Next time she spends the night, when we wake up in the morning see if she wants to get some breakfast (instant-date), or just hang out for a little.
I know theres definitely a better way to approach this but for whatever reason, I can't figure it out and thats where you guys come in. Thanks in advance!
