duke007
Master Don Juan
Here's a chat session I had with a girl I met on a dating website. We live in different countries so I'm using her for practice. So especially toward the end I began asking questions that I wouldn't normally ask a girl I was trying to get with.
I aimed to be C+F, she picked up on it, and liked it. This led her to believe I was charismatic. We both used a lot of winks
, but they weren't saved in the log (there are gaps where they used to be).
I'm posting this because many new guys often wonder how to be c+f and deal with girls on the internet. This is a real example of a conversation..it is often difficult to remember what was said in a face-to-face convo. I thought I'd share because it seems to have worked very well. I would say if I lived in this cutie's town, she'd be putty in my hands. So tell me what you think.
I aimed to be C+F, she picked up on it, and liked it. This led her to believe I was charismatic. We both used a lot of winks
I'm posting this because many new guys often wonder how to be c+f and deal with girls on the internet. This is a real example of a conversation..it is often difficult to remember what was said in a face-to-face convo. I thought I'd share because it seems to have worked very well. I would say if I lived in this cutie's town, she'd be putty in my hands. So tell me what you think.
Carpe Diem!!!: Andy?
Andy: i'm here. hmmm what's with the crazy pink font?
Carpe Diem!!!: oh I always use pink it just took me a bit to get everything set up on here
Andy: nice. did you just watch a rerun of Dead Poets Society?
Carpe Diem!!!: lol I'm obsessed but haven't for a bit! so what's up?
Andy: just wasting a bit of time before uni...i have a 3 hr seminar to look forward to...
Carpe Diem!!!: ooh fun! ^o) oh do you want me to let you go?
Andy: hahah you're ok...the class is not for a little while
Carpe Diem!!!: oh cool cool
Andy: but I know you do like to talk a lot....
Carpe Diem!!!: lol yes this is true! but don't you as well?
Andy: hahah...you got me... i like a girl who can dish it out too
Carpe Diem!!!: !! hey do you by chance got a webcam? I just got one that works, but no one else seems to have one =(
Andy: unfortunately no....I know you're keen to see more of me nice try
Andy: hey you can start your own webcam website!
Carpe Diem!!!: ooh you saw through my little plan! haha! *evil laugh* just kidding. what a pornographic one???!!??
Andy: hahahah.....hmmm you have a dirty mind! I wasn't thinking that when I said it....but if that's what floats your boat
Carpe Diem!!!: oh no lol! but usually when people have a "webcam" page it's pornographic in nature!
Andy: ahh so you go to these sites do you?....lol. many people have kid-friendly sites erina...
Carpe Diem!!!: oh man I promise I don't, lol i keep sounding more and more like some kind of perv! I swear I'm not really!
Andy: hahah you're so easy to pick on! not in a mean way though! that's ok, I don't think you're the online stalker type
Carpe Diem!!!: oh lol well that's good! and i get that a lot I'm a bit of an easy target! so what is your class on? what does IS stand for?
Andy: heh, strategic change of subject there.....IS is Information Systems...no-one ever knows what it means. the class is research methods - basically teaching us how to write a thesis
Carpe Diem!!!: oh fun.... thesis writing is just sucha blast.. poor kid!
Andy: yup, you said it...my topic is ok though...text messaging and the initation of romantic relationships
Carpe Diem!!!: oh! is that why you joined espin?
Andy: hmmmm...you got me again! in a way yes, but it's not JUST for research
Carpe Diem!!!: oh wee you looking for some hotties from Australia?
Andy: hahah well let's see if there are any....but text messaging means through mobile phones rather than internet. I-Dating is only slightly related
Carpe Diem!!!: oh wow I didn't know people did that through phones!
Andy: the number is obtained using conventional 'pickup' methods, then we start looking at how SMS works.
Carpe Diem!!!: SMS??
Andy: for example, one girl on espin gave me her # and said, "Txt me some time" I suppose this is part of my thesis
Andy: text messaging = SMS
Carpe Diem!!!: ah that seems a bit dangerous! moreso than email!
Andy: ahhh I'm trustworthy! I'm sure you'd give me your number if I lived in CO!
Carpe Diem!!!: lol well maybe I really don't have a single person from America on my spin list so it hasn't been a problem!
Andy: maybe? hmmm maybe is girlspeak for "god yes!" lol. well what's wrong with all the American boys?
Carpe Diem!!!: eh I don't like them nor do I have much luck, lol confident aren't ya?
Andy: well I don't usually butt-kiss...but you are the most 'normal' person I've met on the net through these sites...you'd be surprised how many girls can't spell. the stupidity is horrendous!
Carpe Diem!!!: aww well you're pretty "normal" yourself! really??!?! I haven't really met any weirdos!
Andy: one girl said she hates her mother...another said I sounded like an arsehole just from one email....hahah it's pretty funny actually
Carpe Diem!!!: oh! I don't see how anyone could think you sound like an ass!
Andy: exactly so don't you text message very much?
Carpe Diem!!!: on phones?? never not my thing, do you? I probably dont cause I share a phone with my mom though...
Andy: hmm really? so how do you talk to guys if your mum might answer?
Carpe Diem!!!: oh no one ever calls me on a cell, lol plus i don't talk to too many guys, I'm a bit shy.. do you chat up a lot of girls?
Andy: oh you're not so shy as you think...you brought up porno websites remember? hmmm well lets just say I have personal interest in my thesis topic!
Carpe Diem!!!: oh well its different online! lol ooh la la! you pick up girls via phone eh? I figured your cuteness would get you billions upon billions of girls!
Andy: hahah ah so many compliments! well first it has to be in person...in order to get the number. but I hate the phone..I only use it to set-up face-to-face. communication is nothing without body language. you agree?
Carpe Diem!!!: I definitly agree! =)
Andy: so cuteness ey? is that cute in a baby kinda way or cute in a sexy kinda way? there are only two kinds of cute you know
Carpe Diem!!!: i would say cute sexy
Andy: heheh that's what I like to hear!
Carpe Diem!!!: how about me? lol
Andy: haah i knew that was coming! well at this stage I;d have to say sexy cute but I need a few more non-zombie images to decide
Carpe Diem!!!: lol its ok definitly NOT sexy cute, maybe little kid cute but I'm ok with that but you must have a lot of girls intrested in you. ugh lol I'm sorry I'll stop rambling!
Andy: hahah hmm i'm interested to know, why do you say "must have girls interested"? what exactly is it about me?...i'm oblivious
Carpe Diem!!!: you just seem teribly charasmatic is all
Andy: oh ok...hmm i need you to pass on a good word for me
Carpe Diem!!!: lol what do you mean?
Andy: let all the girls know how charasmatic i am....but I know that's impossible. hahah i can't believe your cool with all this ****iness....i really pushing the limit aren't i?
Carpe Diem!!!: eh I figure you deserve to be =)
Andy: deserve to be ****y? how come?
Carpe Diem!!!: I don't know I guess cause you're cool? it seems like kidding ****y so i don't mind do you know what I mean? I don't know if I'm making sense
Andy: kidding ****y exactly...not arrogant ****y. i just love messin around
Carpe Diem!!!: yeah I can tell
Andy: ahhh good. well I gotta run to my class now, but I'll catch you later....remember the waffle pic! you ahve a webcam now so it should be easy
Carpe Diem!!!: lol alrighty but I want one too! have a good tim ein class! bye!
Andy: i'll see what i can do ...cheers!