"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im changing my views on sex and LTR

frivolousz21

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*****s fyck.

Im not dating a *****..im dating a great women.

let me ask you..Ive got her sexually attracted to me...but obviously she isnt going to fyck..

wat emphasis should I put on sex..to be honest with you.

I dont even care if we have sex now..right now im having fun going out with her...and letting things go as they are.

we havent gone past kissing..tonight we are going out for the 3rd time.


ussually im already in her pants.but this one..I dont care...tongiht Iw ill go past kissing..but not sex for sure..and nothign oral..probably just fell her up or something.

is this because I care more about the emotional attachement or what?

and how should I play this role considering she is a virgin.


to add to that..we talk with no end..just no end..I make msyelf not call her or stay on the phone to long..its like perfect yet senseless..

this is garbage..of all the women i fall for I fall for this one...one diff then ive been in my past..but yet maybe one that I am looking for, for my future.


exp thanks to PRL..and his views on HORs and how right he is
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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after going out with her last night....to see this play called the tempest.


she is a dumb ass and it wasnt last night..so we walked around the park till about 830..then layed on a blanket till 1 am...until the cops kicked us out..

I am def re-thinking what I think a DJ is and I will post this in another thread.
 

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I dont even care if we have sex now..right now im having fun going out with her...and letting things go as they are.

as long as you are happy it's all good

how old is this chick ?

and how should I play this role considering she is a virgin

haha do a search of my posts with the word virgin

i got stories about virgins and fake virgins that would give you nightmares lol

is she really a virgin ?

as a Don Juan in my experience your game should be the SAME for virgins and non virgins. don't baby them. isolate and escalate the kino.

she is a dumb ass and it wasnt last night..so we walked around the park till about 830..then layed on a blanket till 1 am...until the cops kicked us out..

HAHA i was in a park on a blanket with a chick who was a virgin. things started getting hot and heavy. we started having sex.

cops bust me ? nope

2 tourists from africa walking through the park walked right past us LOL the chick was hiding under the blanket ( always take 2 blankets on picnics or to sit on in the park ;) )

i looked at the black african dude expecting him to look away

he just looked back and me and smiled HAHA

so we stopped having sex and left

DAMN TOURISTS !!!!!!!


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i tried looking up a search on virgins under your name.. i keep seeing other interesting past topics you were invloved in, but i wanna read up on these "virgins" or "fake-virgins"... I run into a lot of these
 

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Basically I am falling in love.

I will be honest..I know this......:)

so how do I maintain myself and not become a pyssy...also having a grreat friendship/lover with her?

I want to make her happy..but not at my exspense....


im confident I will make the proper adjustments as this goes along.

I hope :)!


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Basically I am falling in love.

I will be honest..I know this......:)

so how do I maintain myself and not become a pyssy...also having a grreat friendship/lover with her?

I want to make her happy..but not at my exspense....


im confident I will make the proper adjustments as this goes along.

I hope :)!


:woo:
please man if you do something good in your life let it be this....go to the bible section, towards the bottom there will be the anti dump machine's posts compiled by pook. very very good info if youre trying to get into that special long term relationship....the whole series is about 40 pages, but read it all. if this is really a potential ltr and you do what antidump says to do, youll be happy you read it all.
 

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the_great_gaia

did the search for you

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=528005&highlight=virgins#post528005

me on virgins :)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=664711&highlight=virgin#post664711

^^^ a must read for everyone on this board

should be in the DJ Bible

chick claiming rape / virgin first time

i also explain how some chicks have sex and still think they are virgins

YES SOME WOMEN ARE THAT F*CKING SNEAKY


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frivolous21, we don't want to hear your little 9 year old whinings.

now come here and wash my balls
 

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dude i know exactly how u feel, it's like ur happy to be with her for the rest of ur life, and the sex isn't actually even important, all it matters is that she is with u forever, ya been there, it's just a beautiful feeling

but don't fail the same way i did, mystery and being a challenge is still the important initial stages before you show her ur true self, always let her say i love u first
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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