spesmilitis
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I'm thinking about buying from Craigslist.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm buying a used car, any advice?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Before you even start it, pull the dip stick and check the oil. It should look fairly new. Black sludge means they never changed the oil; cloudy or milky oil means that the head gasket is about to blow. I looked at an SUV once, and refused to buy it due to milk oil. The girl selling it got mad, told me it ran fine...and then the head gasket blew ten miles down the road after she left.
Ask to see maintenance records. Ask about the timing belt -that is a big deal if it has not been changed on schedule.
What is your budget? What kind of car do you want? Do you want to go fast or be reliable?
Ask to see maintenance records. Ask about the timing belt -that is a big deal if it has not been changed on schedule.
What is your budget? What kind of car do you want? Do you want to go fast or be reliable?
spesmilitis
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I want to get a Honda Civic, 2003-2006. Price range 10-14k.
Get it in black.
http://www.civicforums.com/ see if you can buy it from an enthusiast.
http://www.hondacivicforum.com/
http://www.civicforums.com/ see if you can buy it from an enthusiast.
http://www.hondacivicforum.com/
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Do you really want to spend 10-14k on such a boring car?spesmilitis said:
I think it's always best to chose the car you want, then do heaps of research on that car.
You will usually find out where the rust forms, common mechanical faults and what to look for on that car when buying.
Also make sure you know the changes(if any) the car goes through every year. Because it might look exactly the same as last years but without the faults of last years model.
Maxtro
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You must take it to a mechanic before you commit.
I did not do this to the car I bought and ended up getting screwed. The car actually had under body damage and the catalytic converter was dented when I bought the car. It cost me about $1.7k to pass the smog check two years later. The air conditioning also stopped working about three months after I bought it.
Everything else about the car was beautiful. But if I knew about the problems it had I wouldn't have bought it. It was the first car I ever bought so I was a little over excited.
I did not do this to the car I bought and ended up getting screwed. The car actually had under body damage and the catalytic converter was dented when I bought the car. It cost me about $1.7k to pass the smog check two years later. The air conditioning also stopped working about three months after I bought it.
Everything else about the car was beautiful. But if I knew about the problems it had I wouldn't have bought it. It was the first car I ever bought so I was a little over excited.
spesmilitis
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Whats a good way to look up used car listings? So far I'm using craigslist.
Create Reality
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You should try a used car dealership. Sometimes you get lucky and see the car you want, in just the right color too.
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tj
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Make sure it is no older than four years old.
Take over payments is usually the best option.
Find someone who is willing to take you to an auction for a little cash on the side.
peace
Take over payments is usually the best option.
Find someone who is willing to take you to an auction for a little cash on the side.
peace
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.