"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm burnt out... everyone else is burnt out

Nobody

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Why doesn't school end already? I'm actually looking forward to a summer of not seeing anybody. **** DJing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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comic_relief

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not sure why you made this post, but I am the complete opposite. I wish that school wouldn't end.

I love to have friends all over the place. Something always happening. Its a friggen blast.

When I get back home, it looks like it is back to work. Luckily, my new girl is only about an hour away from my house.

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I'm good with school ending, but only because summer is a much better time for me. I can kick back, relax, and of course, sarge to my hearts content.
 

comic_relief

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SenorSuave said:
I'm good with school ending, but only because summer is a much better time for me. I can kick back, relax, and of course, sarge to my hearts content.
thats all college is, my friend. That is all it is.

you will love it.

comic_relief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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