"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im broke ... tips???

mxmxmx

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So I'm broke, in a job I loved, but doesn't pay much... I don't have my own place... Needs tips to bag.... Things to do on dates, bar tips, any tips on anything re the ladies... (New to the dating scene, I've only dated 3 females , lond stretches each in the past 7 ywars)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Purefilth

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You start by reading up the DJ bible buddy - scroll to the bottom of the page and theres a link.

I recommend that and look at the PDF for DJ bootcamp.

Welcome.
 

mxmxmx

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Thank you sir .... Ima go read now
Any other tips or links welcomed ..
 

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read the dj bible.

oh and if you have " this once special girl" who you love and you guys have been friends forever.

just don't! don't even go there dude. took me 8 yeras to fook my onetitis girls. not worth your time trust me!
 
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