"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm bringing Strauss' book, "The Game" to high school.

Vice

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I no longer care if anyone finds out that I'm into this stuff. I've read the book once, and why not read it again, in a place where I have plenty of free time?

I'm a senior. I dress well, and act non-needy. I don't care if people find out I do this stuff. When they do I can talk about it freely.

I don't care. School starts again next Monday, April 7th.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effington

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Umm...thanks for sharing? I don't understand what type of response you are looking for here.
 

Mavrick

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What response are you looking for? Do what you want.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

SinJester

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Good luck!

Can't say I would do that.

Look forward to seeing how it goes.
 

oakraiderz2

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Tard.
 

jacob

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DON'T DO IT BRO! When I was in high school I would do that and at first I thought nobody gave a sheeet. But as time went on and I was with my group of friends ,guys and gals, the book thing would pop up in sarcastic comments and jokes from the guys and the girls would look at me weird. I found out on my own that, yeah, it was a bad idea and now years later it got validated on this site with the some article suggesting "confident men don't tell the dynamics of attraction to women". I guess you want the women to think your a natural at creating attraction inside of them instead of some wanna be nerd trying to learn the game. That is what'll make you seem mysterious, that you know something others don't, but how?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a friend who actually carries that around with him, not to read but to use as an opener/prop. You'd be surprised how many women have read that book (and seen/heard of Mystery) and invariably they want to talk about it, and usually approach him before he can approach them (using some excuse to talk to them while 'accidentally' showing that he has it). They go on and on about how they are immune to it, all while my friend is getting in closer with them with every second. He's had more than a few dates with women who were 'immune to it'. I guess with how popular that stuff has gotten, you have women who are all about reading it to see what the deal is. This guy has also read "He's Just Not That Into You", the "Rules" and uses that stuff to his advantage also.

I don't know how it is with high school girls - it might only work on older women. Just thought I'd mention it.
 
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