"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PeterCrouch

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Basically im bored and im looking round this site trying to wonder what to do and thought i would ask you guys what to text this gal i kinda like

basically she has a bad shoulder so we cant meet up, neither can i go to hers coz we live to far apart

were quite close and we tell each other things but we only chat online or face to face! not on the fone!

last saturday she said "wot would ya say if i said i loved you" and "well i do" since then she cancelled on me coz of her shoulder as we were gonna go to a fashion show on tuesday!

now i fancy texting her, what do ya think i could say or where could i take the convo?

cheers for any help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Send her a text and make her think it was meant for someone else. Something like "last night was amazing!!" Make her wonder about you.
 
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She is an attention seeker and although it would be kinda funny, i dont think that would be wise
 
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