I'm being constantly hit on by chicks...

[brosnake]

I'm sure there are many others on this board that have similar experiences to mine. Women are constantly hitting on me.

Here is a familiar scenario:

At the mall on a Tuesday afternoon buying some jeans at American Eagle.

Her: Do you need any help with that sir? (major EC, she is *not* breaking her vision)
Hero: Nah.
Her: Oh WOW! I love your jeans, you look really cute! *or* I love your glasses! (sometimes grabbing at them)
Hero: Thanks.
Her: (something flirty with suggestive EC)
Hero: That's cool. (unemotional)

Note: After two rapport breakers the chicks will usually leave or if they are really desperate ask another rapport gaining type question/statement.

So why was I a total prick to this chick? Because she was an UG and I just really wanted to purchase my stuff and leave. I get blatant IOIs from UG5-6.5 A LOT. Well they are not exactly IOIs, more like "I want to make it very clear you have the green light to sex me without doing anything else besides looking good" type looks/gestures/words. A one hour stroll through a local mall will elicit this response to at least one clerk or counter girl.

And please don't misunderstand me here, this thread is not to brag about how much of the man I am. In fact, far from it. I only know I'm being hit on now is because up until recently I *never* got any attention from the ladies. I was 40 lbs overweight, dark, moody, drug addled, and a total AFC to boot. I spent my entire life looking down at the ground for sheer fear of making eye contact to a stranger. After a year of a religious diet and 4-days a week at the gym, I have transformed into a male apparently more pleasing to the female eye than my previous form. I have also attempted to correct my body language as well as mental outlook all in an order to become the man I know I can be.

Getting back to the original purpose of this post, I get these major IOIs but I almost always completely ignore it when it comes from chicks that I would not approach on my own. A part of me thinks I'm good for her and I shouldn't lower myself just to get pu55y, but a part of me thinks that the sexual experience alone would be worth it (Although on one occasion I was pretty much dragged up to an empty room of a party house by a UG6. We had foreplay for 20 minutes and I just couldn't get it up, and it wasn't because I was drunk either). I was nearly assaulted at a party tonight by a cute face but fat, chick. I was a nice as I could be, but I turned her down.

I was wondering if anyone else has any experience in this issue. Maybe I should just get them to mack with me a little in front of the real targets instead of isolating them just to gain some social proof with the real hottie targets. But what if you are at a party and there are no real hotties there, just all HB5.5-6.5. Do you bang them for the hell of it? Or do you hold yourself to a higher standard?


-brosnake

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[Mjfan12]

I get hit on by ugs too. Ugs have nothing to lose, so they cast their pride aside and make an obvious move.

A HB would almost never be obvious, they drop subtle hints. Even if shes madly in lust with you, she will rarely make a move.

So I think getting hit on by ugs, while extremely annoying, is a good sign. If ugs think youre hot, then the hbs also think youre hot.

I'm oblivious to body language. I just dont pay attention to small things. Im sure I get plenty of hints, but I rarely pick u on them.

I need to learn how to read body language better.

 

[JaguarMike]

This can only be described in one way (I speak from experience)... NEWLY FOUND ALPHA MALENESS. You see a hot girl come talk to you, or average girl, and its obvious she is into you, but since she doesn't fit your new standard, you blow her off, or act unemotional. This in turn makes her obsessed with you. The funny thing is, your reaction to these mediocre girls is exactly what this dumb site wants you to act like... and do you see what it creates? Girls becoming obsessed with you. If you treated the hotties the same way you treated the fatties you'd be the ultra "don juan" which is such a retarded term to begin with because don juan demarco was a homo. And secondly, don't lower yourself EVER. Forget these stupid mediocre girls, when you were in your old state they wouldn't have looked twice at you, so why now give them any respect whatsoever?

 

[Tyron]

Yep it's humorous sometimes. They are using some exact things we're teached here. For example, this one girl was giving EC all night and smiling great bodylanguage and then she came with the line "Are you like four feet tall" (im a well build almost 6") Other time one was giving me all these funny nicknames.. familiar? And you really see some afChicks too, ya it's not just guys.

This usually happens when I work. Maybe because im wearing a suit and am sober among drunk afcs.

 

[Don Juan Prototype]

Originally posted by Mjfan12
I get hit on by ugs too. Ugs have nothing to lose, so they cast their pride aside and make an obvious move.

A HB would almost never be obvious, they drop subtle hints. Even if shes madly in lust with you, she will rarely make a move.

So I think getting hit on by ugs, while extremely annoying, is a good sign. If ugs think youre hot, then the hbs also think youre hot.

I'm oblivious to body language. I just dont pay attention to small things. Im sure I get plenty of hints, but I rarely pick u on them.

I need to learn how to read body language better.

I never thought of it like that. If I dont intimidate an ug chick then usually they will flirt with me. It's pretty hilarious and I usually let em down lightly by showing disinterest.

 

[Silverback82]

Originally posted by Mjfan12


So I think getting hit on by ugs, while extremely annoying, is a good sign. If ugs think youre hot, then the hbs also think youre hot.

I'm not sure about that. I think girls hit on guys they feel are in their league. An ugly girl will not hit on a Brad Pitt lookalike unless she is drunk.

 

[brosnake]

Silverback82: I think you might be right.

 

[insidious]

Originally posted by Silverback82
I'm not sure about that. I think girls hit on guys they feel are in their league. An ugly girl will not hit on a Brad Pitt lookalike unless she is drunk.

Well now THAT is a scary thought for all the fledgling Casanova's around here

FYI, UG's never hit on me at the mall.

In fact, HB's don't either! LOL

 

[Downrock27]

I think Silverback is right.. unless they know you well enough to feel comfortable around you... but if its just some random UG in the mall and she is hitting on you, it could be because she thinks she's in your league.

 

[tmpgstx]

Some girls that really *like* you will act like bytches to you! Have you ever had that experience? I mean, they will not acknowledge you for anything and then you come to find out they think you're the best thing since sliced bread. It's weird, but goes back to insecurities. They're afraid if they do acknowledge and show interest that you may reject them which is more painful than not showing any interest at all.