"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im being a dumbass give me some quik advice cuz im not in a position to take my own

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yo this girl ive been talking to had her friend call me to invite me to this valentine dinner thing, and btw since i knew it prolly was on speaker phone i called her friend cute a couple times to piss her off. i know bc i saw on myspace that shes sleepin over at the friends house. so i called her right after and she let it ring all the way through and then picked up sounding all tired and then the connection f'd up. so she called me back from her "house number" and sounded all fake tired and i was like why was ur friend calling me? are u going to this dinner tommorrow? and shes like prolly not. but i know shes full of it. and then she makes it clear another time im at my house, when secretly i know shes at the friends. she was really pissy on the phone and hung up on me, i think bc she heard me call her best friend cute.
am i a dumbass for not just playing along and if i did **** up what can i do to fix it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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and omg she just texted me i got her trippin boi! she said " 1st of all i dunno wtf w my friends callin u, i dont need an attitude, how stupid u think i am? i dont get my friends to call for me im not in 3rd grade" haha sounds like u love me girl u trippin, but i still hate to play this part of the game advice is very welcome
 
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