No disrespect to anyone, but I think it's safe to say anybody that's on here on a regular basis that's not a moderator etc. is probably not doing too well and is probably a cloaked chump. Maybe Im wrong but I know I only come here when I've been fumbling to refresh my memory. When things are going smoothly between work and play I'm too busy to be sitting on the internet unless I'm on myspace or blackplanet trying to do some virtual pimpin.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm back so things must be slowing down
- Thread starter hamelech
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MissionX
Don Juan
Haha I have somewhat hurt feelings, but I guess that doesn't matter, I guess hamelech doesn't have enough time for use anymore. Buddy we are like a brotherhood here 
Haha
Payne
HahaPayne
I generally think that too.
But I am sure there are exceptions... like me.
I have only been coming here coz I am at work and in my industry everything grinds to a standstill at this time of year (I drew a short straw to be on the skeleton crew) with everyone going away on Holidays.
I don't have much to do but **** around on the net.
And yeah, I'll be gone as soon as work picks up.
There is no ****ing chance I would be coming here in my own time. I don't think many guys who are macking it would be either.
Generally these guys who have one thousand posts next to their name must either have a boring job all the time or full of **** when they boast about all the chicks they have nailed.
JJ
But I am sure there are exceptions... like me.
I have only been coming here coz I am at work and in my industry everything grinds to a standstill at this time of year (I drew a short straw to be on the skeleton crew) with everyone going away on Holidays.
I don't have much to do but **** around on the net.
And yeah, I'll be gone as soon as work picks up.
There is no ****ing chance I would be coming here in my own time. I don't think many guys who are macking it would be either.
Generally these guys who have one thousand posts next to their name must either have a boring job all the time or full of **** when they boast about all the chicks they have nailed.
JJ
I agree with both of you
This is like a brotherhood, I love it and its very helpful. However if you've got 5000 posts on here and you've been coming here less than ten years (if this site has been around that long) and claim to be a "Master Don Juan" I have the sinking feeling you're not practicing what you preach. Everybody goofs off on the internet from time to time but that's pretty pathetic.
This is like a brotherhood, I love it and its very helpful. However if you've got 5000 posts on here and you've been coming here less than ten years (if this site has been around that long) and claim to be a "Master Don Juan" I have the sinking feeling you're not practicing what you preach. Everybody goofs off on the internet from time to time but that's pretty pathetic.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.