No disrespect to anyone, but I think it's safe to say anybody that's on here on a regular basis that's not a moderator etc. is probably not doing too well and is probably a cloaked chump. Maybe Im wrong but I know I only come here when I've been fumbling to refresh my memory. When things are going smoothly between work and play I'm too busy to be sitting on the internet unless I'm on myspace or blackplanet trying to do some virtual pimpin.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm back so things must be slowing down
- Thread starter hamelech
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MissionX
Don Juan
Haha I have somewhat hurt feelings, but I guess that doesn't matter, I guess hamelech doesn't have enough time for use anymore. Buddy we are like a brotherhood here 
Haha
Payne
HahaPayne
I generally think that too.
But I am sure there are exceptions... like me.
I have only been coming here coz I am at work and in my industry everything grinds to a standstill at this time of year (I drew a short straw to be on the skeleton crew) with everyone going away on Holidays.
I don't have much to do but **** around on the net.
And yeah, I'll be gone as soon as work picks up.
There is no ****ing chance I would be coming here in my own time. I don't think many guys who are macking it would be either.
Generally these guys who have one thousand posts next to their name must either have a boring job all the time or full of **** when they boast about all the chicks they have nailed.
JJ
But I am sure there are exceptions... like me.
I have only been coming here coz I am at work and in my industry everything grinds to a standstill at this time of year (I drew a short straw to be on the skeleton crew) with everyone going away on Holidays.
I don't have much to do but **** around on the net.
And yeah, I'll be gone as soon as work picks up.
There is no ****ing chance I would be coming here in my own time. I don't think many guys who are macking it would be either.
Generally these guys who have one thousand posts next to their name must either have a boring job all the time or full of **** when they boast about all the chicks they have nailed.
JJ
I agree with both of you
This is like a brotherhood, I love it and its very helpful. However if you've got 5000 posts on here and you've been coming here less than ten years (if this site has been around that long) and claim to be a "Master Don Juan" I have the sinking feeling you're not practicing what you preach. Everybody goofs off on the internet from time to time but that's pretty pathetic.
This is like a brotherhood, I love it and its very helpful. However if you've got 5000 posts on here and you've been coming here less than ten years (if this site has been around that long) and claim to be a "Master Don Juan" I have the sinking feeling you're not practicing what you preach. Everybody goofs off on the internet from time to time but that's pretty pathetic.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.