"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm back from spring break!

toddC

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Okay boys spring break 06 in bahamas was insane. My whole grade went and all in all it was the best week of my life.

Anyways the reason I'm posting this isn't to brag about my spring break but get a little advice on what I should do about my gf.

Me and her were together for about a month before I left. Shes a junior so she didn't go. We ended up decideing that I can get with as many girls as I want blah blah blah. Now I got back in last night. She got home from Florida today, but we haven't talked about where our relationship is at or is going...You guys think I should bring it up to her? Also you guys think I should hang out with her today? I do want to see her really badly but I'm not sure if its an AFC move considering that she just got home maybe 5 hours ago.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not sure if its an AFC move considering that she just got home maybe 5 hours ago.
Yes its a afc move. Why are you wondering where the relationship is?
Don't women ususally worry about that not the man too much...

Come on Dr. Phil just chill out man. Part of being a DJ is guess what?

Having A Life!!

Do something you like to do that doesnt have anything to do with chicks.
You'll see her when you see her (probably in school since your still in it duh..)

Congrats on the trip though. Crap I never been anywhere for spring break.

I been places like: Amsterdam ( woo.. stoners paradise.), Tobago, Barbados, Panama, hawaii and samoa... for surfing mainly.
 

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yea not to get off topic or anything but i got with 35 chicks in 7 days not too shabby lol and yes i want to go to amsterdam REALLY REALLY REALLY bad ha
 

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TODD haha i wanna hear long winded field reports about this fucckin awesome week. 35 chicks? goddamn dude
 
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