"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm back from spring break!

toddC

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Okay boys spring break 06 in bahamas was insane. My whole grade went and all in all it was the best week of my life.

Anyways the reason I'm posting this isn't to brag about my spring break but get a little advice on what I should do about my gf.

Me and her were together for about a month before I left. Shes a junior so she didn't go. We ended up decideing that I can get with as many girls as I want blah blah blah. Now I got back in last night. She got home from Florida today, but we haven't talked about where our relationship is at or is going...You guys think I should bring it up to her? Also you guys think I should hang out with her today? I do want to see her really badly but I'm not sure if its an AFC move considering that she just got home maybe 5 hours ago.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonMEgaHoss

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I'm not sure if its an AFC move considering that she just got home maybe 5 hours ago.
Yes its a afc move. Why are you wondering where the relationship is?
Don't women ususally worry about that not the man too much...

Come on Dr. Phil just chill out man. Part of being a DJ is guess what?

Having A Life!!

Do something you like to do that doesnt have anything to do with chicks.
You'll see her when you see her (probably in school since your still in it duh..)

Congrats on the trip though. Crap I never been anywhere for spring break.

I been places like: Amsterdam ( woo.. stoners paradise.), Tobago, Barbados, Panama, hawaii and samoa... for surfing mainly.
 

toddC

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yea not to get off topic or anything but i got with 35 chicks in 7 days not too shabby lol and yes i want to go to amsterdam REALLY REALLY REALLY bad ha
 

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TODD haha i wanna hear long winded field reports about this fucckin awesome week. 35 chicks? goddamn dude
 
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