I'm Attracted To...

[PURE]

my best friend's sister. We have known eachother for 12 years. However, I saw her this weekend for the first time in 6 years.

My problem: I told her that I used to be attracted to her years ago. She replied: "I always thought of you as a brother."

There was definitely sexual energy in the air and A LOT of kino! My best friend was kinda happy about it.

How can I turn this around? Please Help!!!

Thank You

 

[rgeere]

Don't bother.... She obviously will never be into you. Go look for someone else to spend the rest of eternity with.

 

[HuuBinh]

my best approach would be SS.

 

[-Zero_h0uR-]

I've seen a couple of my friends date my best friend's sister. Two to be exact. It's not a good deal, dude.

It gets messy. What if **** gets sour? Who's your friend going to believe more? You, or his sister. My bet is his sister when his brotherly protective instincts kick in.


-- Zero-

 

[htemorp]

I'll always be hitting on my friend's sisters, and somehow they're all pretty attractive. I don't really expect to go anywhere, and I did it so obvious like they know I am joking. But it's good fun, and you shouldn't date your friend's sister...or ex.

 

[Turalyon999]

my dad is happily married to his best friend's sister.

I'd say as long as your friend is cool with it, and the interest is there, go for it.

 

[stevey_2000]

why the **** didn't i have a young sister??, i had to have a younger brother and instead of having young pretty gals to chat up and **** i had thieving gits making loadsa noise in the house!!

u lot don't know how lucky you are ;-)

 

[PURE]

Originally posted by HuuBinh
my best approach would be SS.

What is SS? Also, what do you Senior Don Juans think of my situation? Need help!

Many Thanks!

 

[rbd]

SS stands for speed seduction.

With your best friend's sister, I would recommend against it.

I've seen first hand how a girl can break up friendships between two guys. In this situation it's even worse, this guy has blood ties to his sister, and really deep friendship ties to you. You're just asking for trouble.

My gut is screaming no on this, however, if you're like most people, you'll go for it anyway. There's not much info in your post, but in this case, I would talk to your friend if you haven't about how he would feel about this. If he's okay with it, the DJ bible covers the drill. Basically, she knows you, she knows that you (at least USED) to like her, etc. Keep the kino up, then at some point isolate and move in for the kiss.

Good luck with this.

 

[PURE]

Thank You!