"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm asking YOU GUYS the BIG BOYS coz I'm geting crap/no answers in the HIGHSCHOOL fo

Leaderofthepack

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rum. I'd like to get to talk to this girl whether for dating or just to play around. I believe she thinks I'm cute coz one time I said something 'cute' and she pulled my cheeks (my face-cheeks that is)
and we both smiled.

But how do I show her I like her, with a pick up line? (don't think so)

Please give me a good answer. If you say 'be ****y' tell me how and give examples please.

PS: I really think this website should have a points system like yahoo answers to encourage people to give propper answers and not lazy half-assed crap.

Thank you

PS2: Please don't answer if your going to flame or be rude.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are a lot of things you can do man but the best thing to do is to tease her and treat her like a little sister. Be confident in yourself... Pretend you are a KING. Just have a good time.

Don't worry about showing her that you "like her". If you are confident, funny, she will start to grow attraction for you. If she already likes you, it will only be amplified.

Clicks are very important in high school. Fool around and tease her friends. Once you get into the "click" and her other friends start to like you, you will have the jealosy card also in your favor. Now, this is important. Don't ditch YOUR friends... Make a grand enterance, fool around with her and her friends, and show that you have your own life.

You'll see results I guarentee...

Later
 

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A. You don't need to show her you like her. You're the prize, not her. Why should SHE get the pleasure of knowing how you feel?

B. Just talk to the broad. Say something crazy and random. Be in the middle of the conversation and just be like "oh hey, spit or swallow?". I've had good results with this, either they answer straight forward, or they joke around about it. If they say spit, be like "oh man, spitters are quitters."

3. There is a point system, its called reputation. See the scale at the lower left, by the circle and the ! logo, click that.
 

DJ_in_making

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Not too many kids in the HS section are qualified to give advice.

Well, anyway what did you say that was cute? If she was squeezing your cheeks there's a slight chance it could be the little brother way, are you 'boyish' by any chance? Is she older than you?

What the above guys said are on point, do you have any other interactions with her besides that example?

Anyway an example of c+f you can use is.

- If she touches your cheeks again tease her for "copping a feel" and act like a chick would if someone were harrasing her, except without acting all gay (ya dig?) If she keeps doing it, you're on. Continue teasing her like "I understand its hard to control yourself but come on." If she keeps showing she likes you at this point, its on, you can start showing your interest. don't be afraid to say it.

p.s. Look out for subtle IOI's example: she may not be all playing with her hair and carressing you, but maybe she's moving within close proximity of you or something....
 

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Ok here is one I used to use back in HS - hope it helps.

Go up to her smiling and tell her, " (insert her name here), I can't believe what I heard about you.
She likely going to say 'What?!.....omg what?!'
And u got her attention peaked. The thing is, you don't tell her what it is.' This can lead to her grabbing you, hitting you (playfully) to get you to tell her. You can go so many directions with this - but the longer you hold out the better.
U can say something like 'Girl, I'd tell you, but what you going to do for me if I tell you.'
Or say, 'lets go out this weekend and I'll see if what I heard about you is true or not'. She might say 'Oh, is it bad or good about me?' and you can say whatevever you think she will react best to . Or just keep it going - like "Depends on who you talk to....bad....good....maybe bad meaning good."

This should keep things interesting and her level of interest in you and what you may or may not know about her.

Good luck playa.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr. 100 said:
Ok here is one I used to use back in HS - hope it helps.

Go up to her smiling and tell her, " (insert her name here), I can't believe what I heard about you.
She likely going to say 'What?!.....omg what?!'
And u got her attention peaked. The thing is, you don't tell her what it is.' This can lead to her grabbing you, hitting you (playfully) to get you to tell her. You can go so many directions with this - but the longer you hold out the better.
U can say something like 'Girl, I'd tell you, but what you going to do for me if I tell you.'
Or say, 'lets go out this weekend and I'll see if what I heard about you is true or not'. She might say 'Oh, is it bad or good about me?' and you can say whatevever you think she will react best to . Or just keep it going - like "Depends on who you talk to....bad....good....maybe bad meaning good."

This should keep things interesting and her level of interest in you and what you may or may not know about her.

Good luck playa.
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