"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I'm Asexual"

SmooveMooves

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Alright, this has to stop. Im getting sick and tired of this bullshít. Now, there's a new group sheep are labeling themselves as. Asexuality:Having no sexual attraction to either sex. Wtf is this shít? I was watching a youtube video on it and was absolutely baffled with the comments. First, there are all of a sudden all these asexual people who finally 'don't feel alone anymore'. Second, these people had the nerve to complain about not being able to maintain romantic relationships. Third! This fūcking 'asexual' person had the nerve to tell me that a said asexual can still have and enjoy sex. They just aren't attracted sexually to either gender. Tf?!!

Then, there's people saying people saying how they're glad asexuality is finally getting covered and neglected compared to trans, gay, bi, les, and anything else you can think of movements. Then I got people telling me that asexuality is normal. And that relationships aren't built around sex.... /Rant

I did alot of rambling but the lack of logic I just witnessed has shell shocked me. Wtf is going on with our society where its cool to 'not be attracted to any sex' and I'm forced to accept these people as yet another protected class.

Can you beleive it? They're called 'Ace' and of course any negative connatation denoted there way is 'Acephobia'. Like seriously, you would think it was a joke. I had actual humans use these terms on me.

Oh, and the new name for us normal people is Cis-gender'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eph

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That's the way our world now works. "Accept everyone except those with a controversially different opinion or else". Get used to it.
 

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That's been around. There's actually a new South park episode on that topic, pretty funny actually.

I'm not sure if it's just me but I've noticed something. The people who are generally deemed as AFC's and or "Weird(like the asexuality people),' are the ones who lean toward Democratic/Liberal political stand points.

Don't get me wrong, there some weird people in the Republican/Conservative party as well, but not as weird as "claiming" a sexuality and not as bad as not going anywhere in life.

I've never met a conservative with no direction in life but I have met a lot of liberals that don't have a direction in life. Both sides kind of have their AFC's and weirdness though.

I just find it interesting how sociology works like that.
 
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