"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm an insecure son of a b****

syemour

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mrRuckus said:
You look like a freakin joke. Ooo another insecure guy trying to look tough.

Try talking like a normal person. I can't wait for another 10-15 years when everyone looks back on that type of talk and is embarrassed by it.
I can understand how you would see how he isnt "talking normal". Just becuase his choice of words, and spellings are different from your own does that not mean that you cannot understand what he is saying?

I understand that it is frustrating reading words that aren't spelled correctly, however did you think that maybe that the way he speaks, not talks, could possibly be normal in the area that he lives in?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhAcKeD! said:
Anyone mind translating "Yallz trippin on the real" for me?

I think that means, "I am hungry so I think I may go down to my local mcdonalds and get a big mac."

I don't have my gangsta translator on me, so I could be wrong.
A-FVCKING-MEN.

I didn't realize it was hip and cool to be ebonically literate. These guys speaking/writing jive will never ever get anything except ghetto trash and chicks who are passed around from thug wannabe to thug dealer.

Christ, you'd think it's virtue to be an imbecile from some of the sympathetic guys around here.

How about a dictionary or thesaurus?
 

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I can understand how you would see how he isnt "talking normal". Just becuase his choice of words, and spellings are different from your own does that not mean that you cannot understand what he is saying?

I understand that it is frustrating reading words that aren't spelled correctly, however did you think that maybe that the way he speaks, not talks, could possibly be normal in the area that he lives in?
Agreed.

You'd think DJ's would be a bit more open and accepting.
 

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syemour said:
I can understand how you would see how he isnt "talking normal". Just becuase his choice of words, and spellings are different from your own does that not mean that you cannot understand what he is saying?

I understand that it is frustrating reading words that aren't spelled correctly, however did you think that maybe that the way he speaks, not talks, could possibly be normal in the area that he lives in?
Maybe I should speak in Filipino on this forum since that's how they speak in the area that I live in. The last time I checked, the language used on this forum is English. I think he should learn how to use our language the way it was meant to be used.

If you speak like a retard at home, that's all good and well. Nobody cares. If you want to be taken seriously, at least use proper spelling and grammar when communicating with other people.
 

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chippendale said:
its not rascicm when no one is talking about him being black. Learn to differentiate.

I hate now a days when person A says something bad to person B and person B just so happens to be black and everyone's yelling rasicm. I say it's bull****.
100 percent agreed
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yo man... nevermind all the BS here bout this and that.

Focus on the real issue... not if some online dudes, think your a 6 or 7.

Issue is... your insecure, and thats being projected onto your girl as suspicion or deciet, etc. Address that. Don't try to guage her tightness as a meter of her loyalty, lol. Once again, bring your focus back home. Your young, just fvcked for the first time, etc. The combination of your lack of experience, first time intimacy, and the feelings it would first create w. a gf, etc... would surely bring such security issues up.

At your age, and level into the game, etc... your just entering into the sh!t. Explore yourself and work on the issues that come up, through yourSELF.

Its ok to talk to your chick bout things. Not saying you should get chump-wussy... just saying you can keep it real on sh!t.

Give yourself the permission to be a MAN. Find security through yourself, with heart. No need to do some covert spy sh!t on her. If you lock yourself down... where's she gonna go!? You feel me?

Peace and...............
 

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I thank everyone that actually replied to the subject matter. Thanks for the help :)


But the rest of these f*cking faggots are wildin because of one small sentence? WTF? It wasn't even in my original post? No one here tryin to be hard. No one tryin to be thug. **** if I was "wanna be thug", why the hell would I make a thread labeling myself as a "insecure son of a b****"? Not that type of stuff I'd expect from this place. Not from sosuave.

And you don't need to be a gangsta to wear a durag or a hoody. That's the dumbest **** I've heard. Damn sosuave is really startin to get exposed.
 

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DarkLight gave solid advice.

My only concern with this story is who in the fvck uses floppy disks anymore? I'm not trying to put thoughts in your head but with email, CDs and whatnot taking over most computers dont even come with floppy drives. I dont know sounded a little off to me.

If you've been together for 6 months maybe it is time that you start to meet her other friends. You can get a good feel by just picking up the vibe that she has around them. I would go that route before jumping to any conclusions.

About tightness, the tightest girl I've been with is probably one of the biggest sluts. How tight a girl is mainly genetic and tight condoms can kill sensation. Buy a variety of condoms and try them on to find something with a good fit. DO NOT wear loose condoms when your trying to **** either. Find a good fit that doesn't feel like your **** is getting strangled to hard.

And what is with all the guys asking for other guys pictures around here. WTF is that all about?

Happy hunting
 
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