"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm an imposter

ladiesman217

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I am a pickup artist in the sense that I read about game, I think game, I speak game, I do game... But that doesn't mean I'm a pickup artist. In fact, I'm not a pickup artist. I'm an imposter. Although Im a natural with women and the last two years of my life have been about   Learning and mastering art of attraction, I am not a pickup artist. I've never had women troubles, I mean I've liked them and they don't know who I am, but I've never had a problem problem. The type of problem when you are tongue tied and sweating like a mad man in front of a beautiful women. And even though im better looking than your average lad and more suave than most of you, i have a problem. I've never picked up a girl. It's not that I get blown out, I don't go up to cute strangers and talk to them. Why? The signs are there, she's practically begging me to come over. But I'm a pus**, I get so fearful over nothing, I know that I wont get hurt, I know that she wants to talk to me, I know that what I have is worth her time and I know that I nothing wrong will come about it. But I'm scared. This has been my sticking point from day one. So, day 700 and whatever, things are about to change. 

Today I was waiting for the public transit to arrive and there was an adorable girl standing twenty feet away, no one else was around, she looked at me, I looked at her. It wasn't until my bus came that I noticed she was crying as we got on. What did I do? I though about things to say, I knew where I would go sit, it was perfect. But after five minutes or so she got off, ten minutes later I got off. As I was walking home I realized what happened. 

But today is the last day of my hybrid suave afc self. I'm going to make a journal of my adventures through community college, it's going to be about me and everyone else on campus, all one hundred thousand of them. Congratulations, you have witnessed the change of ladies man 217. Each morning I will set a goal to do and as the day progresses I'll fulfill that goal. I'll also add something I learned or that you should know. So welcome to my journal of taking it to the next level. 

All I want from this is growth, I don't want your negative comments. This is going to be a place for you and me to grow, it's going to be about self improvement, not just with women though, but with EVERYTHING in our lives. So to everyone who is like me and isn't talking the unknown women, would you like a couple of months of awkwardness with women, or a life time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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twentee

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women use crying as a WEAPON, bud, best to not get involved, and she probably did not WANT you to be involved, just have SOMEBODY 'rescue" her. They are just a drain on your bank account and your peace of mind.
 

ladiesman217

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twentee said:
women use crying as a WEAPON, bud, best to not get involved, and she probably did not WANT you to be involved, just have SOMEBODY 'rescue" her. They are just a drain on your bank account and your peace of mind.
You bring a good point, I hadnt thought about that. haha well, girls get as much money a you let them have. I haven't spent a dime on a girl in a long time. That's because I'm a cheap skate though. As for the peace of mind, they only get as much Time in your head as you let them.
 

Watawata

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twentee is just a troll, dont be influenciated by him.
 
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