I'm an idiot, so knock some sense into me.

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

All right, I like a girl and I don't know if she has much interest in me.
She used to be my oneitis, but she had a boyfriend and I finally realized that I can't get her since she has a bf, so it's pointless to even try.

And I gave up about 3 days ago... (stupid part coming up)
I noticed this online that she changed today "[name of person] went from being "in a relationship" to "single".

Ok so I was like... omg I am so lucky, no wait, this probably isn't true, it's just a misjudgement from my point of view and I shouldn't get my hopes up.

I don't know if it's true or false, but I do have her phone number and I can probably talk to her online.
She actually told me that we should talk online because her phone bill was too high, which I think is BS and she really doesn't feel like talking to me, but it could have been that she was in a bad mood because she was just dumped or something, so I really don't know.

Shes about a HB6, as an average among my friends opinions.
Her personality is great, fun to be with, so this is what caught most of my attention.
I guarantee I don't have oneitis for her right now, I used to though.
I'm probably in the friend zone, but she hasn't known me for long enough to be able to make a final decision.
I want to go for a relationship with her, but I am horrible with my girl skills, and time is probably an issue since she might just pick up another bf somewhere (assuming it's true she doesn't have one anymore).
Meanwhile I'll be looking at not just one girl, because she's not my oneitis.


Thats basically it. And while I think about solving this problem, I'll be working to improve my life, not just for this one girl, but for everybody to see, especially me, because I have to live with myself everyday, all day.

Smack some sense into me if I'm not doing things well in any area!!!

 

[KontrollerX]

If she's in your local area the phone bill thing is absolute b.s.

And she could've got dumped but you should know chicks like to change their status to single when they are either looking for an attention fix from another male and thats all that it is (so they can prove to themselves they are still sexy and desireable to the rest of the male populace) or they are looking for another branch of male interest to begin the move away from their current man.

If you must proceed with this one talk to her online and see if she wants to hang out with you sometime.

If not and she just tries to talk to you like a friend which is how I'm taking it from her not wanting to talk on the phone with you b.s then you must move onto greener pastures ie other chicks.

As you continue to improve yourself she may eventually come around.

Just don't wait for her to do so is all.

Game as many different chicks as you can.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

I reread that and everything looks stupid..................

cept for this: "this probably isn't true, it's just a misjudgement from my point of view and I shouldn't get my hopes up."

thats still ok with me.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Haha I knew she was bsing me some places, but the phone thing is long distance so idk about that.

I think I thought it was easier to go 1 girl at a time, but I need to do things the hard way.
The only desperation I have is, if she really is single I don't want to lose a good chance, cause I still think shes awesome for a girl that lots of ppl don't like.

(This is my personal taste so you shouldn't have a problem with it.)

 

[KontrollerX]

Oh well if it is long distance than she's probably telling you the truth.

You may have a shot at this after all.

Just talk to her online and see if you can set something up.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

hah.. she said talk online instead of using the phone and I was like.. "do you ever go online?" and she said not really... but w/e

She should be really easy to get, but not for me because I'm bad at being a man I guess... I kinda want to see what shes really all about.
hahahahah fairy snowangel rofl..

 

[noirsake]

hmmm.... if its her cell and shes one of them "popular" girls i could see why..maybe. something like "online? dont you like to talk like a normal person?" might work...i dunno.. i would be getting the BS alarm.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

lol last time I called her I didn't use any C+F
hmmm I shouldn't have dropped that.. anyway you could make that into "I hate talking online, you don't get to hear my lovely voice."

or something along the lines of that, the "non-insulting" version lol

 

[ElStud]

Go For It Man!

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

thanks bro, good luck with your approaches

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Heres what I think...

All right, I like a girl and I don't know if she has much interest in me.
She used to be my oneitis, but she had a boyfriend and I finally realized that I can't get her since she has a bf, so it's pointless to even try.

So far so good.

And I gave up about 3 days ago... (stupid part coming up)
I noticed this online that she changed today "[name of person] went from being "in a relationship" to "single".

Here it comes...

Ok so I was like... omg I am so lucky, no wait, this probably isn't true, it's just a misjudgement from my point of view and I shouldn't get my hopes up.

Trust me. Don't have any hopes.

I don't know if it's true or false, but I do have her phone number and I can probably talk to her online.
She actually told me that we should talk online because her phone bill was too high, which I think is BS and she really doesn't feel like talking to me, but it could have been that she was in a bad mood because she was just dumped or something, so I really don't know.

Shes about a HB6, as an average among my friends opinions.
Her personality is great, fun to be with, so this is what caught most of my attention.
I guarantee I don't have oneitis for her right now, I used to though.

You don't have oneitis for this girl??? You almost came in your pants when you found out her myspace status says single! :crackup:

I'm probably in the friend zone, but she hasn't known me for long enough to be able to make a final decision.
I want to go for a relationship with her, but I am horrible with my girl skills, and time is probably an issue since she might just pick up another bf somewhere (assuming it's true she doesn't have one anymore).
Meanwhile I'll be looking at not just one girl, because she's not my oneitis.

Hopefully, she is not your oneitis. If she is single she's gonna be on the rebound. I would advise you stay away a girl who just broke up with her boyfriend. Too much baggage. Find a different girl!!


Thats basically it. And while I think about solving this problem, I'll be working to improve my life, not just for this one girl, but for everybody to see, especially me, because I have to live with myself everyday, all day.

Thats what I want to hear!

Smack some sense into me if I'm not doing things well in any area!!!

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

lol what do you mean by too much baggage?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Well, if she just broke up with her boyfriend. Depending on how much she liked him. She will still have emotional feelings for him. It will probably just be a bunch of drama and her moping around. But, if you can make her feel other wise and take her mind off her ex. Then, she could fall for you and think your the better catch.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Ew emotime...
I really think I should read some attraction and conversation sections of the bible. If anyone has any reccomendations for articles, just post em

I'm thinking of reading like 2-3 every week and applying what I've learned in my free time.. then later on I can battle the confusing girls.. not just this one.

Experience is very key I guess..

 

[kalash74]

It sounds like you are putting too much effort/care into this 6/10. You should be out there gaming hotter chicks. If you really really want this one girl you should just wait a while until she is over her recently ended relationship before you make a move.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

lol I heard shes taking it well.. and she told me she was pissed about it.
she was like "my bf dumped me. freakin idiot"

and this statement says something about her which I find a little weird: "between june and august i got dumped twice by different guys..."

she's fun, I want to see if she's relationship material. just cause those guys didn't keep her for long doesn't mean I'll end up doing the same after like a month or 2.

 

[Kev07]

lol I heard shes taking it well.. and she told me she was pissed about it.
she was like "my bf dumped me. freakin idiot"

and this statement says something about her which I find a little weird: "between june and august i got dumped twice by different guys..."

she's fun, I want to see if she's relationship material. just cause those guys didn't keep her for long doesn't mean I'll end up doing the same after like a month or 2.

"Who cares, you have better things to do, how about we go out for a bowl of cereal?"

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Ahh I have so much improving to make.
I'm willing to drop this girl, but since I have oneitis for her, I want to learn how to get girls, get some, then get her if there comes a good moment.

In other words, I want to learn how to get girls like her, because thats the kind of girl I like.
I must imporve this time, and I don't want to be just saying this, I want to actually do something!!!