“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm an idiot, slap me now!

Jubelands

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Hey everyone i'm new to the forum and this is my second post, well here it goes.

Well i was at the gym today just working out doing my thing when suddenly a HB9 with a 10 body catches my eye. I know for a fact that she finds me attractive because we made EC a couple of times and i could tell she wanted it. I know that i am a very attractive guy and that a lot of girls are attracted to me. I have always been told by friends that are girls that every girl they know wants me. The problem is that i am a B*tch when it comes to approaching a girl. I get too nervous for some reason and i do not know why. I am really trying to work on it though.

Yes i B*tched out and did not approach the HB9 at the gym even though i knew she wanted me and i hate myself for it. Plese help me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Aisle55

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That's just your lack of confidence manifesting itself. Eg, b*tching out. Read the threads on confidence and don't worry about this girl too much. As long as you know what you're doing wrong, you'll be able to correct your flaws.
 

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**SMACK**


Now go get that girl! And post a field report so we know you actually did it!
 

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double post
 

Tantric

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a good way to look at it is...

she WANTS you to some over...she's pretty much already invited you.

SHE'S THE ONE WHO IS NERVOUS!!! Remember, YOU are the man...and you are the man that SHE wants.

Even though you have an interest in her as well, remembr that she's probably all nervous and tongue tied around guys she likes too.
 

Jubelands

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thanks guys, next time i'm in that that situation i'll just go for it, and i will for sure post some field results. I'm also planning on going on the DJ boot camp, hopefully that helps. thanks for your help. i'll keep you posted. Peace
 
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