"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crank_It_Up said:
you have 2 more days because you waited so freakin long... to anyone wondering if/when/how to approach take note, you snooze you lose.
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Latter on I saw her outside her shop.She said hows it going? I just said yeah alright.On the way back as well, another girl from the shop was there.(she's hot!)said hello(with a smile) Just said 'hi'.The girl that is leaving(becky) smiled!

I like this other girl as well.If I go in again for Becky.I have no chance with the maybe single hot one?:nono:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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christz said:
i'm confused as what's going on here lol
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Becky has a boyfriend! but the other girl!
She's the one who does all the talking to me!
I think I may have blown it:rolleyes:
I need a plan:crazy:
 
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johncrawford said:
Becky has a boyfriend! but the other girl!
She's the one who does all the talking to me!
I think I may have blown it:rolleyes:
I need a plan:crazy:
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screw becky man.. just say hi to becky and walk right in and talk up the other chick in front of her, hell it may even spark up intrest in becky that you never knew was there.

i work in a mall and occasinally when i go on smoke breaks i see some hotties out there smokeing sittin on the bench. the other day i walked out took a few puffs kinda looking out at traffic passing by. i looked over at the two chicks sitting.

"so you guys gonna move and let me sit or you gonna watch me stand here in the sun smokein by myself?"

they laughed and of course moved over and i sat and had a pretty good convo with both of them. Was i trying to go for a # close? no i don't shyt where i eat i just use random hotties that work in the mall for practice.
 
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screw becky man.. just say hi to becky and walk right in and talk up the other chick in front of her, hell it may even spark up intrest in becky that you never knew was there.

i work in a mall and occasinally when i go on smoke breaks i see some hotties out there smokeing sittin on the bench. the other day i walked out took a few puffs kinda looking out at traffic passing by. i looked over at the two chicks sitting.

"so you guys gonna move and let me sit or you gonna watch me stand here in the sun smokein by myself?"

they laughed and of course moved over and i sat and had a pretty good convo with both of them. Was i trying to go for a # close? no i don't shyt where i eat i just use random hotties that work in the mall for practice.
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I hear ya buddy;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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