"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm an Ape...Shave REQ

Dogfish

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Well since I inherited A LOT of body hair from my two granddads it has become a major problem for me.
I have a lot of hair on my butt and in the area of my groin. anyway on these spots i can't really shave it off or i would result with a scratchy butt.

and if i only shave my pubic area (well i do that) and my butt, wouldnt it look weird together w/ hairy legs?

so what to do? remover? wax?

i'm quite new to the topic..

thx
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt

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Dude it only itches the first couple of times you shave it after that your used to it and it doesn't itch anymore.
 

cuzza

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What about chest? I'm scared of shaving that since I don't want it growing back quickly and having to do it like everyday, as well as shaving my beard....
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Purchase a beard trimmer if you don't already have one. Trim your pubic, ass, and chest hair with one of the guards on...there ya go.
 

mrRuckus

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Bah. I'm hairy everywhere except my upper 2/3 of my back and my upper arms. No one cares. Girls don't. Just as many girls will dislike the hair as there are that will think you are retarded for shaving it.

I trim pubes and arm pits only like every 2 months. Doesn't really grow all that fast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LoneSilver

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Hair is there for survival but outside of bodybuilding competition or medical reasons I'd leave it.

I don't know how many times I have been out or asleep and felt a tick or mosquitoe on me and if it weren't for the hair on my legs, arms and the little I have on my chest I wouldn't have had the highten sensivity without it.

As far as the pubic area I'll trim it down to a degree but not complete.

I can't count the times I have been in bed and awaken being tickled by a tick coming up my leg looking for a nice spot to imbed his blood sucking suckers.

With lime disease and others where ticks and mosquitoes carry I'll leave the hair for an extra layer of protection especially where I live in the country.

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bigshot

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I got my chest and stomach waxed about 6-8 weeks ago, it hurt lyk hell but it was well worth it, im due for another wax soon. i trim my pubic area and armpits, they dont grow back that fast, id say about 8weeks until another trim.
 
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