"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm an AFC again..

Dayum itz jee

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Well ... Something happened.. And i became a AFC again.. I dont know where to start as a DJ..again.. learning to be a DJ the second time is so much harder than the first ... any advice..?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You know I heard an interesting podcast on this. The author was talking about the reasons why you revert back to a AFC. Supreme said it's because you are only putting on a mask instead of becoming.

He ment that you have to become a DJ instead of act out a frame. It has to be engrained down to your cellular level.

If I can recall the link to that podcast I will post it for you.

Craig,
 

Dayum itz jee

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Aww man.. At one point of my life i actually felt like a DJ.. Never knew it was a mask..
 
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