“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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King_Supreme

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so ive been hearing this alot lately from ladies. yeah i used to be the nice guy callin everyday, buy cards, expensive dates, cooking for a chick, etc, ect, but after a few 1nite stands and a few failed relationships i realized i dont have to do that sh!t to get laid so i stopped. now im still respectful to females but i have no problem sayin whats on my mind to a women. for example:
her: do u miss me
me: no
her: when u gone cook for me
me: never
her: i want u to buy me ______
me: i dont buy women gifts
her: can i come over
me: no
her:why not
me: cuz i dont feel like seein u 2day
her: when u gone feel like seein me
me: when i know youll know so dont ask no more
her: i think im fallin 4 you
me: thats not a good idea
her: dont you have some feelings for me too
me: nope
me: i wanna see u 2day
her: ok but we cant fvck 2day because of (insert excuse)
me: well i guess it aint no point in u comin over then

these are just a few of the dialouges i have with the 3 chicks im currently sleeping wit right now and all 3 of em swear they hate my guts but they keep fvckin me so they obviously like a$$holes. only problem is i dont like being this cold hearted to women. it gets me sex but it really aint me. im really a nice dude (not 2 be confused wit afc) i just mean im good hearted.

when im on my nice guy sh!t i end up in relationships, when im an a$$hole i end up wit multiple women in my bed. i gotta try to find the fine balance between the two.
 

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Err I think you're taking it bit farther than I would. That's not even a$shole, more like d!ckhead.

But good job. Hahaha. I do this all the time when I want to get laid quick.

I love it when they say. "You're sooooo mean to me." with a cute lil pout, love it.
 

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i dont know if any of you guys listen to rap but its a song out called "u a jerk" one of the chick has that as my ringtone. lol.
 

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King_Supreme said:
so ive been hearing this alot lately from ladies. yeah i used to be the nice guy callin everyday, buy cards, expensive dates, cooking for a chick, etc, ect, but after a few 1nite stands and a few failed relationships i realized i dont have to do that sh!t to get laid so i stopped. now im still respectful to females but i have no problem sayin whats on my mind to a women. for example:
her: do u miss me
me: no
her: when u gone cook for me
me: never
her: i want u to buy me ______
me: i dont buy women gifts
her: can i come over
me: no
her:why not
me: cuz i dont feel like seein u 2day
her: when u gone feel like seein me
me: when i know youll know so dont ask no more
her: i think im fallin 4 you
me: thats not a good idea
her: dont you have some feelings for me too
me: nope
me: i wanna see u 2day
her: ok but we cant fvck 2day because of (insert excuse)
me: well i guess it aint no point in u comin over then

these are just a few of the dialouges i have with the 3 chicks im currently sleeping wit right now and all 3 of em swear they hate my guts but they keep fvckin me so they obviously like a$$holes. only problem is i dont like being this cold hearted to women. it gets me sex but it really aint me. im really a nice dude (not 2 be confused wit afc) i just mean im good hearted.

when im on my nice guy sh!t i end up in relationships, when im an a$$hole i end up wit multiple women in my bed. i gotta try to find the fine balance between the two.
dude are you Brad Pitt

tell me where to meet women like that - nothing even comes close in my universe, Serioulsy where did you meet each of these ladies and how did you even get on dates with them or did you?
 
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He mastered the Art of Not Giving a Fvck. You can too.
That excludes sleeping with minors, you mentioned in another thread how you like fourteen years old or something. :down:
 

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Tyson420 said:
He mastered the Art of Not Giving a Fvck. You can too.
thats seriously what it is. ive just stopped caring. ive lived 27 years tryin to please other people (family, employeers, girlfriends) so now im being kind of selfish and im only trying to please myself. for the most part its a good feeling but i do disgust myself sometime with my attitude. one chick i met at work (25), another i met at the optical office (38), and another at a mall (22).

nope no brad pitt here. the main reason females in my area are drawn to me is because i stand out from the norm. in a city where most black males where oversized clothes off there a$$, du rags, baseball hats, etc, i tend to have a very clean look, i wear clothes that actually fit (old navy, hollister, etc) i speak proper, a vegetarian, and im educated, so they are more so intrigued by me cuz i live in the hood but im not hood.
 

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Energizer said:
you mentioned in another thread how you like fourteen years old or something. :down:
u got me mixed up wit somebody else. i never said anything like that, nor would i ever do something like that.
 

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Jean Valjean said:
how did you even get on dates with them or did you?
the 38 year old we've never been on a date. older women know exactly what it is they want so they allow you to skip the formalities

the 25 year old, our 1st date was a sushi restaurant and pool. she never had a guy take her to a real restaurant before. she was used to guys always taking her to fridays or chillis so the fact that i was different got her hooked.

the 22 year old, 1st date was italian and a club. what got her hooked on me was that she got extremely drunk at the club to the point i had to carry her to the car. i took her back to my place and put her in my bed. she was hot so she took all her clothes off on her own. i let her sleep in my bed and i slept on the couch. she woke up the next morn sobered up and she was impressed that i was a gentelman and didnt take advantage of her while she was drunk. 5 mins later i was tappin that.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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HeyPachuco! said:
Only unattractive low-quality women talk like that.
no unattractive chicks onmy arm sir, but i will say i always tend to find the mentally or emotionally damaged ones
 

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I don't see what the big deal is.


You say you're an a$$hole,but all you did was tell a girl you didn't miss her,weren't going to cook for her,buy her any gifts,and that she couldn't come over to your place one night.


These are all things taught here on the forum.

You'll have to forgive me for being naive,but I don't see the "a$$hole" part.


I thought you were going to say you mistreated her,abused her,beat her,or was verbally abusive to girls.


All this stuff is just stardard Sosuave principles.
 

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Igetit! said:
You'll have to forgive me for being naive,but I don't see the "a$$hole" part.
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well maybe im not but ive being hearing it so much lately im startin to believe it. then i actually start to feel bad a lil bit cuz they'll tell me that im mean, or i hurt their feelings, or the one i hear the most "u wasnt like this when i 1st met u".
 

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but they still sleeping with you right bro? listen to womens actions, not their words...you must be doin something right.
 

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King_Supreme said:
well maybe im not but ive being hearing it so much lately im startin to believe it. then i actually start to feel bad a lil bit cuz they'll tell me that im mean, or i hurt their feelings, or the one i hear the most "u wasnt like this when i 1st met u".
well do you still take them out. Those are fine dates you took them out on dinner and activity. Do you think part of the reason you hooked them is by wowing them on nice first dates? then really tapering back?

ps
I try to keep it simple and cheap to find if there is chemistry before I drop $$. I usually take them to a dance social or walk on the beach.
 

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I got a good laugh reading that.

As mentioned above your a ****head and cold as fukk to them,
:up:

I gotta hand it to you though, you got them held down.
 

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This stuff is overplayed. Never once do I remember a girl being more into me when i acted like a d1ck.

I've lost more girls that way than anything. I drink a bit with them, let the teasing become too much, make it hit a little too close to home, and poof they're gone.
 

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mrRuckus said:
This stuff is overplayed. Never once do I remember a girl being more into me when i acted like a d1ck.

I've lost more girls that way than anything. I drink a bit with them, let the teasing become too much, make it hit a little too close to home, and poof they're gone.
I agree with you, same with me. If I got mean poof they were gone. I guess there must be some hot and cold but not too cold to leep it interesting, You prob have to get them to fall first or feel like they are falling before they give a shiit about you enough to tolerate being treated poorly here and there.
 
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