I'm always ****ing up on the phone.

[razkay]

I've been talking to this girl online, developed good rapport, exchanged phone numbers after 5 or so messages.

I called tonight expecting her not to answer (and she didn't). My original plan was to call once, if no answer, wait about an hour and try again. If no answer on the second time, I'd shoot her a ****y funny message about not taking my call.

But nooooo.... I leave a voicemail. And not only that, I said "you can call me back" which I knew was the wrong ****ing thing to say. I wanted to just say "hey, sorry I missed you, I'll try again later".

Now, could this mistake block me from going anywhere else with this girl?

My next action is to call again tomorrow, but don't leave a voicemail. I will send her a short message online and never contact her again until she makes contact. And in the meantime, forget about her and go after some more girls.

Anyone successfully recovered from voicemail blunder?

 

[razkay]

Or I'm thinking about cutting off contact completely. I left one message. My number showed up in call history. The end.

What's better? Don't contact her at all, or call one more time and send a brief online message?

 

[SickAgain]

here's my rule: call, no answer?, then text

DO NOT GO BACK TO ONLINE that is her comfort zone, pull her out

 

[razkay]

what should i do in my situation since i already left a voicemail?

good tip about not going back online. thanks.

 

[DonGorgon]

you should not be on the phone for long.. tell her your not a phone person and that you prefer to talk face to face.