"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im Afraid

Maxxy

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For those who don't know im a high school student in a college program, so im a senior/college student. Thing is my original school sent a letter saying i could go to homecoming and im planning on going because i never went before. However this is the same school where i got rejected by 15+ girls. I was very foolish i'll admit during high school. But i do want to go, and there is one girl who i know is going who i would like to ask out. I just feel bad that im going to have to see all those girls again and return to the sneers i know they are going to give me. All this time i spent running away from the past and now im going to have to see it again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DavenJuan

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first of all.. you shouldnt RUN from you past.. you want to know why...?

BECAUSE YOU CANT RUN THAT FAST.

accept your past for whatever it was. and LEARN FROM IT.

believe it or not, its as simple as VISUALIZING who you WANT to be, and start making decisions that get you there.

how do you visualize a confident person talking to others, how do you see a guy acting that gets all the girls.. etc etc.

whatever it is that you feel you lack. start picturing YOURSELF as that person.
 

IrishKid

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well on home comming, all those girls will be so happy, im sure they wont even think of you.. its a day to be happy... and really you shouldnt care what others think!!
 
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