"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm Afraid To Kino

juleswinns

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I'm afraid to kino. I've got the 3 second rule down. I have my ****y funny routine but I back out when it's time to kino even with IOI's. I'm sure it's rejection I fear so some advise would be greatly appreciated. I want to be prepared for this girl I've been hanging out with whose been giving me IOI's
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ace of Flames

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Just do it. You just gotta start doing it.

Its like your first bungee jump. You have this pre-concieved notion of what its going to be like, and then you just say fvck it and jump. Then you realize its not even half as bad as you thought, and you start having fun with it.

Just start practicing with people. Even guys, as long as its just like a hand on the shoulder or something. Your less hot female friends, practice on them. Just fvcking do it.
 

blinkwatt

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juleswinns said:
I'm afraid to kino. I've got the 3 second rule down. I have my ****y funny routine but I back out when it's time to kino even with IOI's. I'm sure it's rejection I fear so some advise would be greatly appreciated. I want to be prepared for this girl I've been hanging out with whose been giving me IOI's
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Ha,what are you waiting for? You know your "issue",now deal with it. YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMETHING THAT WILL/SHOULD HELP YOU CONQUER ALL YOUR FEARS....REALIZE THAT YOU WILL DIE SOMEDAY,MAYBE TODAY OR MAYBE A HUNDRED YEARS FROM NOW,YOU DON'T KNOW WHEN SO LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST.
 

Sosa

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What do you really see in her rejection;meaning what difference at all does that make to your life? Look at it that way-I'm sure you'll see things differently.
 
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