"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm Afraid To Kino

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juleswinns

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I'm afraid to kino. I've got the 3 second rule down. I have my ****y funny routine but I back out when it's time to kino even with IOI's. I'm sure it's rejection I fear so some advise would be greatly appreciated. I want to be prepared for this girl I've been hanging out with whose been giving me IOI's
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ace of Flames

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Just do it. You just gotta start doing it.

Its like your first bungee jump. You have this pre-concieved notion of what its going to be like, and then you just say fvck it and jump. Then you realize its not even half as bad as you thought, and you start having fun with it.

Just start practicing with people. Even guys, as long as its just like a hand on the shoulder or something. Your less hot female friends, practice on them. Just fvcking do it.
 
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juleswinns said:
I'm afraid to kino. I've got the 3 second rule down. I have my ****y funny routine but I back out when it's time to kino even with IOI's. I'm sure it's rejection I fear so some advise would be greatly appreciated. I want to be prepared for this girl I've been hanging out with whose been giving me IOI's
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Ha,what are you waiting for? You know your "issue",now deal with it. YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMETHING THAT WILL/SHOULD HELP YOU CONQUER ALL YOUR FEARS....REALIZE THAT YOU WILL DIE SOMEDAY,MAYBE TODAY OR MAYBE A HUNDRED YEARS FROM NOW,YOU DON'T KNOW WHEN SO LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST.
 
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What do you really see in her rejection;meaning what difference at all does that make to your life? Look at it that way-I'm sure you'll see things differently.
 
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