"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im actually depressed?

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Ima make it as short as possible.

Like around a month and a half around or so, i got this girl phone number, we never really talked on the phone, the first time i called her she said she was busy and had company(i hear people in the background) so i know she wasnt lieing. She said she would call but never did, i didnt care though.

When i texted her she always texted me back, and so on.

Now i have texted her around 3 times in the last 2 months or so and she never replied. I havent called her at all though, i dont know why, may be i should call her?


2 days ago i went to the corner store, and as i walked in i saw a girl that looks just like her but i didnt know if it was her or not cause she didnt have any make up on, and the only time i saw her(when i met her) she had make up, she kept looking at me as i walked in, she didnt stop looking one second, so i think that it was her, yet i didnt say nothing cause i wasnt sure if it was her or not, tonight i texted her about that i think i saw her at the store and how she is doing or watnot, again no answer.

What yall think, does this chick just has no interest at all or maybe i should just CALL and see?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't call her. Don't text her. She is playin' games with you. If you 'drop' her, you may have a chance with her.
 

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That would be some good advice in a different situation i dont think this applies for this particular one though, since she has never initiated contact, but then i have never actually called her
 

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Plain, do you understand the attraction game...attraction is not a choice, being teh dominant male makes you attractive, period, okay? Its in your body language, voice tone, etc......thats it, period, nothing else, period....

Girls sometimes act like bytches. I believe it is in their nature to just be a damn bytch sometime, thats when you go to your next honey, dont be all keep callin her when shes acting like a bytch, what are you, her bytch? By doing that, it shows you are insecure in the fact that you dont understand attraction, if you are the dominant male the attraction is still there, period, she is just acting like a bytch, let her.....this is the time to spend with your other bytch........
 

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Plain, I dont think you are acting like the dominant male anyway, I think you portray beta in your body language and voice tone, etc......and if you do, forget about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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