"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im about to start fvckin other girls but Im living with her.

gt2345

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This is such a weird fvckin situation. I just graduated college in December shes still getting her masters. I got a job in my college town. I was living there. A bunch of sh*t happened at once later on. Got into with my roomates and broke up with her basically within a couple of days. So I thought it would be easy to transfer jobs since I work for such a large company. So I decided to move down and probably commute for a couple of weeks. I would also have to pay no rent or other housing bills cause my parents own a house in which they dont live in. I started commuting then I started talking to my GF again. I was trying to transfer jobs but they said I couldn't for a couple of months due to staffing and transfer problems currently.

Currently I got back with my GF and am living with her I guess you can say. I pay no bills there either I buy her food though. Its great cause then I dont have to commute an hour each way everyday put miles on my car and blow like 100 a week on gas. But I dont know what I want anymore with her. I kind of want to get out of the relationship with her cause I have issues trusting her and shes just out of control attention wh0re and talking about marriage with me, weve only been together for a year also. I know I can find better too but at the same time Im not about to commute everyday 100 miles a day. I might have to stay with her for a couple more months like until october atleast maybe a little sooner but still. She is a cool girl good looking has some stuff going for her but shes just not right for some reason. What should I do? Its hard to fvck other girls thats what I want though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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snintel

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If you aren't interested in her anymore, then be a man and TELL HER THAT and break up with her. Don't go cheating on your gf cause you're too much of a ***** t face her. Oh yeah, we don't need every detail of your life, just include the basics. Too long a post.
 

darthsidious

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You know what I hate about some of these posts, when guys here talk about a breakup or whatever but never talk about a good reason or why they do it. Therefore, I am not responding but just making a comment so other informed posters will do this. I can't decipher or analyze anything without more facts.
 
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