"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm a traditional chinese girl.

eile

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i just got here through internet.
this is my first come here
i am always interested in other kind of culture,lifestyle,and...
here, all i want is to make friends and learn more about you guys, pls tell me if you have story,any kind
i love reading chinese ancient poem,listening pop music,national music,watching love movie,writing brush
i will tell you something about china if you like:)
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eile said:
i just got here through internet.
this is my first come here
i am always interested in other kind of culture,lifestyle,and...
here, all i want is to make friends and learn more about you guys, pls tell me if you have story,any kind
i love reading chinese ancient poem,listening pop music,national music,watching love movie,writing brush
i will tell you something about china if you like:)
Lol
 

PrinceKong

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Oh my gosh...

A GIRL?!!

I never seen one or talked to one before, what do i say?!?
I need some help, imma go to a forum that discusses on how to deal with women real quick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lololololol
this is just funny watch the hordes of hopeless men horde her inbox
 

Five To One

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PhunGar said:
lololololol
this is just funny watch the hordes of hopeless men horde her inbox
Yeah id like to flood her inbox^^^^


ha but yeah your probably right.
 
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