im a total AFC

[NoCommitments]

So my 1st night out with my best friend in Atlantic City nightclub. I was the guy that stood by the bar wondering why the ujgly guy next to me is grinding on the pretty girl while I stand creeping. F*ck!!! Not sure if its my ltr breakup holding me back or just stupid approach anxiety but I can't seem to have the balls to transition convos... when I open a set I have nothing left.

I'll open a set with "hey did u see that fight outside etc...then I transition with hey how do u feel about tats my niece wants to get one but she's only 13 etc...then I'm blank

I seriously need help!!! I used to be amazng at this but now I'm an afc. Should I go to a workshop? Go out with some skilled pua's?

lots of missed opportunites

Pls advise

 

[Tiguere]

Ask for their names.....ask what are they celebrating? Where they live? Also come up with fake stories ...in nigghtclubs the best faker wins.

 

[user43770]

Tiguere killed it.

in nigghtclubs the best faker wins.

That pretty much sums it up. Clubs are all about presentation. It's sad, but it's true. I normally wouldn't recommend canned lines to people, but in a bar/club, it's necessary. Let me clarify, I'm not talking about "do you come here often?", I'm talking about sh1t to say when there's a lull in the conversation. Prepare beforehand. What am I gonna say if the convo dies? It's gonna happen. It always does. Personally, my initial reaction (because I'm drunk) is to say something stupid to kill the awkward silence. Terrible idea. It always fvcks everything up. They end up looking at me like I'm stupid - which, due to the alcohol, I am (what can I say, I love that sh1t). Which brings me to another point, too much alcohol fvcks up your game. If you go up to a girl when you're drunk they automatically assume you have liquid courage. Which you obviously do. Don't get so drunk that you advertise it. A few drinks is money. Stick to that.

Your best bet in bar/club is to have just enough drinks to get in the 'zone.' From there, you post up and scope out the scene. Find a spot where you can see everything. This is where you scope out your 'prey.' It's easy to fvck up here and notice girls who are in large groups. Fvck them. They shouldn't be your focus. They're there to have a good time with their friends. Leave them to it. You need to find the girls who are by themselves (or with 1 friend if you have a wingman). This is when you go in for an icebreaker. Lately, I've been asking girls for the time. They either don't have a watch or they go to look at their wrist, before they can tell me I look at my own watch and tell them the time - money in the bank. From there I proceed to use canned lines. Like I said earlier, it's all about presentation.

in nigghtclubs the best faker wins.

Thank you, Tiguere. On point.

Let me say that I hate clubs. I hate the whole charade that is the fvcking scene. Use it for what it's worth - getting laid. As with anything, practice makes perfect. Use the 5 Ps: Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance.

Already. Be easy.