spider_007
Master Don Juan
i just thought i'd let you guys know.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So wtf are you complaining about, dude?spider_007 said:I'm a pvssy
LoL@Tribe Fire thing!! But two thumbs up for your comments! Create that positive vibe and get rid of your nervousness, get drunk!! :yes:RedPill said:Well sh!t spider, now you are dredging up bad memories for me. I too have been in that exact same club you speak of, several times, back long ago in the chump days. If memory serves me correctly, that place is the status club on that street - the one that always has a line to it. There are some real hot b!tches in there. You've gotta get youself pumped up before going into a place like that. Once in there drink some red bull & vodkas.
Now, I'm no expert at the clubs, not really into the club experience, but here's something that's worked for me in the club environment.
- You've gotta have this mindset that you are there to celebrate life, not get laid. This might sound dumb, but I try to envision ancient times, where there's a fire in the center of the dance floor, and we are a tribe dancing around the sacred fire. The dance is a very primal experience. There is a very sexual element to the whole thing. The women sense the sexual energy, and it puts them in a trance. Their instinct is to dance. It's nature's call to mate. Your male instinct should be to sample the women, and when you find one where there's a chemistry, get your mate on. Admittedly, it takes me some alcohol to get into this mind-state.
- Always have this little smirk glued to your face
- If you make eye contact with a woman point at her with two fingers and your thumb up, kinda like you're making a "gun" gesture, then flip your hand over and with your two fingers motion for her to come over to you. She'll do it if she's interested. Then let your instinct take over from there.
- If you catch her looking at you, glance at her out the corner of your eye, and motion with your head for her to come over to you. At the same time out the corner of your mouth whisper the word "c'mon" as in "c'mon over here baby." If you can pull it off well it hits her with a wave of masculinity on a deeply primal level.
Hopefully this is helpful advice for you. Again, I'm no master of the clubs, but the things I mentioned above have worked for me.
I'm the same way as well,I think its the fact that its alot more pressure off when we sarge in our daily life,shopping,out with friends then going to a club for the purpose of sarging and taking home a ho.RabbitMan said:Going into bars and nightclubs is an utter waste of money and time it is really only a fantasy that people put into your mind that you are ever really going to pick up a gorgeous girl in a place like that.
I am a good looking guy about an 8 out of 10 and I have never once in my 20 adult years managed to pick up a girl and have sex with her on the night that I met her, maybe it happens, but I kind of wonder if it really does.
I always stay at the bar by myself and drink and no girls or guys for that matter ever want to talk to me whilst I am there and I am not a shy person I can talk to people very easily but it doesn't happen in those places.
Whenever I am around gorgeous girls at colleges, gyms, shopping plaza's, social outings, etc lots of the girls seem to be attracted to me and we talk and often later meet.
I am probably the type of guy who isn't very good at approaching people that I don't know, yet I am confident when I meet them in an enviroment of which it is easy for me to talk to them.
These days if I didn't have a girlfriend I would just use the internet to meet a girl, it is alot easier, nightclubs as far as I'm concerned are useless,![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I know.spider_007 said:I'm a pvssy
I was puirty drunk already (i'm one of those people that passes out after one beerPink said:LoL@Tribe Fire thing!! But two thumbs up for your comments! Create that positive vibe and get rid of your nervousness, get drunk!! :yes:
:crackup: look who is trying to be funny.DaPainkillah said:So wtf are you complaining about, dude?
Most guys here would do just about anything to get pvssy.
( . )( . ) said:I know.
I remember you negative reppedme for telling that guy that waiting to be sucked off in the shower or while wearing a condom was unnaceptable.
"What? setting some bounderies and getting some self respect by nexting the chick for denying a B.J " ..That titty man must have lost his mind"
It was already written in the stars you be the kind of bozo that puss's out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=922659#post922659
I wasn't expecting to get laid or even make out for that matter (i've been around long enough to know that, that doesn't happen to me). Far from it actually. All i wanted really was to dance with some chick...have a few laughs.....and get a little flirting/touching in. And all i ended up doing was getting drunk and making a fool of my self on the dance floor (i just hope nobody i know saw me, i have a habbit of running into people at the worst time) Kinda sounds pathethic now that i said it.RabbitMan said:Going into bars and nightclubs is an utter waste of money and time it is really only a fantasy that people put into your mind that you are ever really going to pick up a gorgeous girl in a place like that.
I am a good looking guy about an 8 out of 10 and I have never once in my 20 adult years managed to pick up a girl and have sex with her on the night that I met her, maybe it happens, but I kind of wonder if it really does.
It's one thing knowing it all, and another putting it into practice. It's kinda why i need a wing.RedPill said:Now, I'm no expert at the clubs, not really into the club experience, but here's something that's worked for me in the club environment.............
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not one of those :box: That's cool!! :rock: Just drink a bit so that you can get a little buzzed (enough to relax). :rock:spider_007 said:I was puirty drunk already (i'm one of those people that passes out after one beer)
not just that, it also helps with motivation, when you have somebody there. It's lot more likely to show off and approach or at least push each other to do something other then stand against the wall.GloriouslyInsane said:A wingman can only help you brake down big sets or deliver a complex (canned) opener,you don't *need* a wing but you should go to bars/clubs with 2 friends of yours just so you can have something to do on off-sarge time or when it doesn't quite work out.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.